96 Unit 2 BUILDING THENURSE–CLIENTRELATIONSHIP
qualities from quadrants 2, 3, and 4 into quadrant 1
(qualities known to self and others). Doing so indi-
cates that the nurse is gaining self-knowledge and
awareness. See the accompanying figure for an ex-
ample of a Johari window.
PATTERNS OF KNOWING
Nurse theorist Hildegard Peplau (1952) identified
preconceptions,or ways one person expects another
to behave or speak, as a roadblock to the formation
of an authentic relationship. Preconceptions often
prevent people from getting to know one another. Pre-
conceptions and different or conflicting personal be-
liefs and values may prevent the nurse from devel-
oping a therapeutic relationship with a client. Here
is an example of preconceptions that interfere with a
therapeutic relationship. Mr. Lopez, a client, has the
preconceived, stereotypical idea that all male nurses
are homosexual and refuses to have Samuel, a male
nurse, take care of him. Samuel has a preconceived,
stereotypical notion that all Hispanics use switch-
blades, so he is relieved that Mr. Lopez has refused
to work with him. Both men are missing the oppor-
tunity to do some important work together because
of incorrect preconceptions.
Carper (1978) identified four patterns of know-
ingin nursing: empirical knowing (derived from
the science of nursing), personal knowing (derived
from life experiences), ethical knowing (derived from
moral knowledge of nursing), and aesthetic knowing
(derived from the art of nursing). These patterns
provide the nurse with a clear method of observing
and understanding every client interaction. Under-
standing where knowledge comes from and how it
affects behavior helps the nurse become more self-
aware (Table 5-1). Munhall (1993) added another
pattern that she called unknowing:for the nurse to
admit she does not know the client or the client’s sub-
jective world opens the way for a truly authentic en-
counter. The nurse in a state of unknowing is open to
seeing and hearing the client’s views without impos-
ing any of his or her values or viewpoints. In psychi-
atric nursing, negative preconceptions on the nurse’s
part can adversely affect the therapeutic relation-
ship, thus, it is especially important for the nurse to
work on developing this openness and acceptance
toward the client.
TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS
Each relationship is unique because of the various
combinations of traits and characteristics of and cir-
cumstances related to the people involved. Although
every relationship is different, all relationships may
be categorized into three major types: social, intimate,
and therapeutic.
Johari window
Table 5-1
CARPER’SPATTERNS OFNURSINGKNOWLEDGE
Pattern Example
Empirical knowing
(obtained from the
science of nursing)
Personal knowing
(obtained from life
experience)
Ethical knowing
(obtained from the
moral knowledge of
nursing)
Aesthetic knowing
(obtained from the art
of nursing)
Client with panic disorder
begins to have an
attack. Panic attack will
raise pulse rate.
Client’s face shows the
panic.
Although the nurse’s shift
has ended, she remains
with the client.
Although the client shows
outward signals now,
the nurse has sensed
previously the client’s
jumpiness and subtle
differences in the
client’s demeanor
and behavior.
Adapted from Carper, B. (1978). Fundamental patterns of knowing in
nursing. Advances in Nursing Sciences,13–23.