122 Unit 2 BUILDING THENURSE–CLIENTRELATIONSHIP
- An impassiveface is frozen into an emotion-
less, deadpan expression similar to a mask.
•A confusingfacial expression is one that is the
opposite of what the person wants to convey.
A person who is verbally expressing sad or
angry feelings while smiling is an example of
a confusing facial expression. (Cormier et al.,
1997; Northouse & Northouse, 1998).
Facial expressions often can affect the listener’s
response. Strong and emotional facial expressions can
persuade the listener to believe the message. For ex-
ample, by appearing perplexed and confused, a client
could manipulate the nurse into staying longer than
scheduled. Facial expressions such as happy, sad, em-
barrassed, or angry usually have the same meaning
across cultures, but the nurse should identify the
facial expression and ask the client to validate the
nurse’s interpretation of it—for instance, “You’re smil-
ing, but I sense you are very angry” (Schrank, 1998).
Frowns, smiles, puzzlement, relief, fear, surprise,
and anger are common facial communication signals.
Looking away, not meeting the speaker’s eyes, and
yawning indicate that the listener is disinterested,
lying, or bored. To ensure the accuracy of information,
the nurse identifies the nonverbal communication and
checks its congruency with the content (van Servellen,
1997). An example is “Mr. Jones, you said everything
is fine today, yet you frowned as you spoke. I sense that
everything is not really fine” (verbalizing the implied).
Body Language
Body language(gestures, postures, movements, and
body positions) is a nonverbal form of communication.
Closed body positions,such as crossed legs or arms
folded across the chest, indicate that the interaction
might threaten the listener, who is defensive or not ac-
cepting. A better, more accepting body position is to sit
facing the client with both feet on the floor, knees par-
allel, hands at the side of the body, and legs uncrossed
or crossed only at the ankle. This open posture demon-
strates unconditional positive regard, trusting, caring,
and acceptance. The nurse indicates interest in and
acceptance of the client by facing and slightly leaning
toward him or her while maintaining nonthreatening
eye contact.
Hand gestures add meaning to the content. A
slight lift of the hand from the arm of a chair can punc-
tuate or strengthen the meaning of words. Holding
both hands with palms up while shrugging the shoul-
ders often means “I don’t know.” Some people use
many hand gestures to demonstrate or act out what
they are saying, while others use very few gestures.
The positioning of the nurse and client in relation
to each other is also important. Sitting beside or across
from the client can put the client at ease, while sitting
Closed body position
Accepting body position
behind a desk (creating a physical barrier) can in-
crease the formality of the setting and may decrease
the client’s willingness to open up and communicate
freely. The nurse may wish to create a more formal
setting with some clients, however, such as those who
have difficulty maintaining boundaries.