THEMES
Grief and Loss
Although the poem does not reveal exactly what
the speaker is going through, the extended com-
parison with Penelope and Ulysses implies extreme
hardship and long suffering. As the speaker wipes
her tears on the corner of her apron, suggesting she
is a modern housewife, she thinks that Penelope,
the epitome of the classical wife, also cried. She
gives the reasons only for Penelope’s tears, but the
reader imagines Penelope as reflecting the speak-
er’s feelings and similar burdens. The archetype of
Penelope is used to evoke the situation of a wife
whose husband or loved one is absent—a personal
loss, but more in that it puts the woman into a
position of pressure and hopeless exhaustion, as
forced to try to hold her world together by herself.
She has no support or partner and must cope
alone. The loss of the loved one and his help
does not feel temporary; it is of such long standing
that her grief gives way, and she weeps. The
attendant doubt and worry are suggested by the
aching back and neck, and the endless night in
which Penelope must stay up, undoing her weav-
ing in secret so that the suitors will not find out she
is delaying, always hoping her husband is alive and
will one day return. She does not know where he is
or if he is coming back. She begins to think the
light will never come.
The focus, then, is on the grief of the woman,
though Ulysses, too, had to endure grief and loss
TOPICS FOR
FURTHER
STUDY
Compare and contrast other modern poems
about Penelope, such as Louise Gluck’s
‘‘Ithaca’’ and Yannis Ritsos’s ‘‘Penelope’s
Despair,’’ to Millay’s ‘‘An Ancient Gesture.’’
How is the relationship between Penelope and
Ulysses interpreted differently by each poet?
Which interpretation do you think is most con-
vincing and why? Write a paper explaining
your response, choosing lines and images to
support your point of view.
Research the New Critics—mid-twentieth-
century writers such as John Crowe Ransom,
Allen Tate, Cleanth Brooks, and T. S. Eliot—
and their ideas about what was good modern
poetry. Then read some of Millay’s poems
and apply the standards of New Criticism.
Why does Millay’s poetry not appear to
meet their criteria? Do you agree with their
evaluations of Millay’s work? Why or why
not? Give a class presentation on the topic.
Read some of Millay’s poems aloud and dis-
cuss with the class whether you think they are
old fashioned and sentimental, or whether
they still have a place in our literature.
Working with a group, research the definition
and history of lyric poetry and famous lyric
poets throughout history. Each person in the
group should then choose a poem from a differ-
ent lyric poet, reading it aloud and identifying
its theme and lyric qualities. The final speaker
should read a poem of Millay’s. Have a round-
table discussion, comparing and contrasting
Millay’s lyric style with the styles of other lyric
poets.
With a partner, listen to recordings of sev-
eral famous poets reading their own poems,
including Edna St. Vincent Millay. What does
the poet’s own voice bring to the poem? How
is poetry different heard aloud than read on
the page? Try taking the same poems and
reading them yourselves in different ways to
bring out various effects; for example, read
for the sound rather than the meaning, or
read conversationally rather than dramati-
cally.Attheendoftheexperiments,writea
report presenting your conclusions about how
reading poems aloud changes the experience
of understanding poetry, giving examples
from the poems.
An Ancient Gesture