Day Fifteen - Love
Morning Ritual:
Quote for the day:
[questioner is having difficult interactions with his stepdaughter]
Abraham:
... and you gather up this new resolve that it is going to be different in your experience and then
you walk right into the face of that. We want you to understand what it is that youíre bumping up
against thatís making you so nuts.
It isnít her choosing things that disagree with your choices. Thatís not whatís making you so
uncomfortable. It is her own personal discord that you are bumping up against that is making you
uncomfortable. We know the trap. Itís like, ìWell Iím only responding to what sheís taught me.î
And this is the thing that we want so much for you all to hear from us here today:
You teach each other your respective responsive vibrations. In other words, you donít feel any way
about anyone without their helping you to feel that way. Itís really co-creation. Weíll even go
further, and bolder, and louder, and blunter. If thereís somebody you donít like, they donít like you
either!
We have never seen it otherwise. We have never one time, ever, known someone to adore some-
one... that the one that they were adoring, didnít adore them back!
Now, some are thinking.. ìOh wait a minute. There was that man that I loved with all my heart,
and he didnít love me back.î And we say, you were offering him insecurity. You were offering him
worry. It wasnít that pure vibration of love.
When you are tuned in, tapped in, turned on ó when you are connected to your Source and
holding someone as your object of attention and you are genuinely offering that feeling of love
and appreciation ó they canít offer you anything else! The law of attraction, that manager called
law of attraction would not put you together... even when you live in the same house. You would
rendezvous differently. You would come home when sheís not there; sheíd come home when
youíre not there. Or she would be unavailable or sheíd be doing something else. You would really
have to work hard to seek out those incompatible moments, when you are in that place of pure
positive energy. It just could not happen, you see.
So. What weíre suggesting to you - and we are certainly understanding how it came about - your
dominate vibration about this girl - is bringing you nothing but grief. And somebody should do
something about it ó and itís not her.
Sacramento, CA 7/27/02