for you do not really cooperate or share the leading role very easily. If you are not in the leading
role, you aspire to be and will compete with the person who is.
You have great heart and courage, and people often look to you for strength, encouragement, and
affirmation. You always have your best face forward and rarely allow others to see you hurting,
disheartened, or vulnerable. You also have a very strong need for love, admiration, appreciation, and
praise, although you don't like others to realize just how important it is to you.
Your outlook on life tends to be very personal and rather self-centered. Your own self-expression,
self-actualization and self-realization interests you more than anything else. You feel that if you do
your best where you are, the rest of the world will take care of itself.
You tend to blend in with and take on the characteristics of the people in your surroundings, and
may thus not make a powerful individual statement of your own. You may project an aura of
glamour or "make-believe", and enjoy trying on different personalities at different times.
Your Real Motivation
Behind your proud and rather self-centered manner (described in the previous chapter), you are a
thoughtful person concerned with social issues. You are very sensitive to the ways in which
economic, social and cultural issues affect individuals. In your own life you struggle to find ways to
advance yourself while also contributing something valuable to your community. Do not be content
with simply blaming society for your problems or others' problems, but rather become active in
creatively finding ways to solve these problems.
You are a freedom-loving, strong-willed, and independent-minded individual, and you insist upon
living your own life as you see fit, even if that means ignoring convention and tradition. In personal
relationships you cannot be owned or possessed, and while you are willing to share yourself with
another, you do not always adjust easily to the emotional give and take of a close relationship.
Though intellectually open, you can be enormously stubborn, opinionated, and inflexible on a one-to-
one level. You have strong convictions and feelings about fairness and equality, and you try to live
by your ideals, but your ideals about how people SHOULD treat one another don't always take into
account human weaknesses, differences, and needs. You probably dislike sentimentality and
traditional gender roles and "games".
You are fair, intelligent, objective, rational and often let your head rule rather than your heart. You
seem rather self-sufficient and detached emotionally because you are capable of putting aside your
personal feelings and viewing things dispassionately. But once you make up your mind on an issue,