JANUARY 7
Regret is an appalling waste of energy. You can’t build on
it. It is only for wallowing in.
—KATHERINE MANSFIELD
Of course there are things we regret. Things we wish we’d
done differently. Even where there has been time to say all
the appropriate things, images will flash in our minds that
we’d give a lot to be able to change. Surely our loved one
has forgiven us. Can we forgive ourselves?
I’m sorry. Please know that I loved you. I know that you loved me.