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lves and in our relationships.
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kinds...but have little to do with how you’ll succeed once you get there.
- People who are optimistic see a failure as due to something that can be
hanged so that they can succeed next time around, while pessimists take the
blame for the failure, ascribing it to some characteristic they are helpless to
art as endless dreary hours of
d to be more aware of their emotions, show more
empathy, and are more adept interpersonally. Men on the other hand, are
optimistic, adapt more easily, and handle stress
py relationship is not so much how compatible
you are but how you deal with incompatibility.
- Emotional intelligence is the capacity for recognizing our own feelings and
those of others, for motivating ourselves, and for managing emotions w
ourse - In a study of skills that distinguish star performers in every field from e
level jobs to executive positions, the single most important factor was not
I.Q., advanced degrees, or technical experience; it was E.Q. - I.Q. and academic skills are entry-level requirements for jobs of al
Emotional intelligence accounts for 90 percent of what’s required for
leadership.
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change.
- Who does not recall school at least in p
boredom punctuated by moments of high anxiety? - Women, on average, ten
more self-confident and
better.
- What counts in making a hap
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s far too narrow and that a person’s
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Dr. Goleman argues that an I.Q.-only view i