positive conflict-resolution tactics
preventing conflict
as protest behavior
secure person’s
secure principles for making conflict work
hypothalamus
“I love you,” withheld
idealized relationship
“the one” who is never you
ignoring, as protest behavior
independence, self-reliance mistaken for
indifference. See also avoidant attachment style
infant-parent bonding
secure mother’s
inner circle
secure person’s
treated like “the enemy,”
insecure attachment style, difficulty with communicating needs. See
also anxious attachment style; avoidant attachment style
insecure people
difficulty with secure resolution principles
strategies to avoid
insecurity
intimacy differences. See also specific attachment styles
in anxious-avoidant trap
in Golden Rules
Into the Wild (Krakauer)
issue identifying
jealousy
flirting