How to Succeed in Commercial Photography : Insights From a Leading Consultant

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go to the gym. Why am I always doing this? I always let
myself down.” Your reaction, your self-judgment
happens quickly. These words set you up for disappoint-
ment, and before you know it (unconsciously) you have
set up a pattern where you begin to equate going to the
gym with disappointment. The motivation is gone and
now you feel obligation in its place.
Each time you tell yourself that you shouldgo to the
gym, you feel stuck and not motivated to go. After all, who
wants to get the gym when it feels like one big obligation?
The tricky part of all of this is that all of this happens
so quickly. You don’t see the negative judgment or
disappointment coming, but its effects are experienced
each time you try to keep you recommitment.

THE FOUR STEPS TO
OVERCOMING FEAR

Repeated over time, unconscious thoughts generate fear,
and this is what Hubbard wants to help you lose. In order to
begin to rid yourself of your fears, Hubbard suggests you con-
sider using his four-step program. The process he created has
helped many people in all walks of life rid themselves of the
fears that are impacting their lives.

Step 1: Identify the fear. Discover the link between your
lack of peace and a specific fear.
Step 2: Look at your fear and name it. Fear of rejection, fear
of failure, fear of success, fear of loss of control.
Step 3: Locate the beliefs you chose that hold the fear in
place. Sometimes the beliefs seemjustifiable but upon examina-
tion they are unrealistic.
Step 4: Give up your judgments (beliefs) in favor of peace.
Actually ask yourself: Do I choose to hold onto the belief that
causes the fear or do I choose peace?

Sound simple? Let’s see how Hubbard’s steps might apply
to a photographer.

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