Eat, Pray, Love

while indicating your optimistic intentions to get that taken care of just as soon as you can.
Even if you are eighty years old, or a lesbian, or a strident feminist, or a nun, or an eighty-
year-old strident feminist lesbian nun who has never been married and never intends to get
married, the politest possible answer is still: “Not yet.”
Eat, Pray, Love