My answer: Drama accomplishes a lot of things at
once. It gets attention, it sends emotions through the
body (emotions are highly addictive chemicals), it’s a way
to be self-righteous, it’s often fun, it’s interesting and
prevents boredom, it gives things meaning... and on and
on. There are a lot of good reasons for drama. But most
men can’t understand because drama fulfills needs that
MOST MEN DON’T HAVE.
It’s like women saying, “I hate it when all a guy can
talk about is sports.” What needs to sports fulfill for men?
Competition, adrenaline, power, domination... all the
typical guy stuff. Incidentally, stuff that fulfills needs that
most women just plain don’t have.
The First Shift In Thinking.....................................
So let’s start off with this shift in thinking: Think about
what the woman who you’re interested in needs and
wants and don’t assume that these are the same things
that YOU need and want.
And don’t assume that what women want is going to
make any sense at all to you, because it probably won’t.
This shift in thinking was a big one for me personally to
understand. Almost none of what I do to be successful
with women makes any sense to me logically, because
I’m not a woman. But now that I see that what I do
works over and over again, I realize that it doesn’t matter
what makes sense.
All that matters is WHAT WORKS.
Let’s get a little deeper into the female heart and
mind.
Females select males most of the time in nature... and
in modern human courtship. And even if the man selects