you’re giving them than to be too overt about it. If
you say, “I was thinking about you earlier today,
and I just wanted to mention that I really like the
sound of your voice...” it’s much more powerful
than listening to them complain about something
so they think you’re paying attention. Get it?
Disinterest, Indifference, a Challenge. Most
women are used to being pursued by men in one
way or another. If you are indifferent to a woman,
make her think that you’re only calling because
you’re bored and act almost disinterested sexually,
they’ll often do their very best to get your
attention. Different is good in this case. Again, this
drives most women crazy, and even though they’d
hate to admit it, it’s ultra interesting to them.
Charm (attention with a polished, smooth
approach). This is hard to describe. Like I said,
watch any James Bond movie to get the idea. And
watch ‘Dirty Rotten Scoundrels’. Pay attention to
Michael Caine’s character. Charm is powerful
because it has a certain ‘prince on a white horse’
aspect to it.
Romantic Imagination and Perspective. Watch
the movie ‘Don Juan DeMarco’ and listen to how
Don Juan interprets the world. Instead of just
looking at the surface of a woman, he looks within
her to find the beautiful part. A romantic
imagination sees opportunities for poetic
comments, interesting stories, fascinating history,
and emotional interpretation in everything.
Expert in Body Language. This is important, as
women are constantly sending signals. I’ll talk
more about this in a later chapter.
Sexual Mastery. Women love sex just as much as
men do. But just like everything else in life, a great