Then when on the date, talk about why you like to
make ‘friends’ first to get to know the other person. “I
think that you’re going to make a nice friend.”
Then, after the friendship frame is established, flirt
like hell and make sexual innuendoes and jokes. This
immediately sets up the idea that you’re very in control of
yourself, and that you’re going to JUDGE whether you
want to be more than friends based on something more
than JUST HER LOOKS.
This is something that a woman has most likely
NEVER encountered (as you know, this is a favorite of
mine).
By the way, if you talk about being friends first, it
makes you remember to look past the looks and find out
what kind of person you’re dealing with (If I had a dollar
for every guy I know, including myself, that screwed his
life up by getting too involved with a woman because she
was attractive on the outside, but turned out to be a
horrible person...)
You can keep up this ‘let’s be friends’ fun forever.
Even after you start dating, still talk about it. It’s easy to
have fun with it. You’ll see.
More Nuggets of Gold...........................................
Always end conversations, meetings, and phone calls
first.
I got this idea from the book The Rules by Ellen Fein
and Sherrie Schneider...You remember that book that
was written about how to get a man to marry you? Well,
it’s a great book. But I don’t think the authors would like
the reasons why I think it’s great. I take all of ‘the rules’
and turn them around. When you play the games that