comfortable bringing up the subject with women they
don’t know. But try telling a couple of dirty jokes, or
talking about a sex program you saw on T.V. Most women
will jump right in and start giving their take on the topic.
It’s amazing. Try it.
On Predictability ..................................................
Don’t be predictable. Do the unexpected when they
LEAST expect it.
But don’t overdo it by acting extreme too often. If you
do the unexpected too much, it will come off as unstable,
etc.
People in general, including women, are attracted to
the novel... the unusual... the different.
Predictability is the enemy of interesting.
If you always act predictable, then by DEFINITION
you’re not interesting.
So keep doing things that are interesting and
unexpected.
If she wants a kiss, say, “No.” But kiss her later when
YOU feel like it. If she sits on your lap, push her off. But
give her a hug later when YOU feel like it.
The Dark Side: Don’t do things that are too far out in
order to be unpredictable. I said be unpredictable, not
UNSTABLE. Don’t get too wild, or you’ll come across as
being loopy.
Another facet of this mindset: Don’t be too friendly
too early.