2•PART TWO: FACILITATOR’S GUIDE
SECTION ONE: Understanding Life Skills
What are Life Skills?
Life skills refers to a large group of psychosocial
and interpersonal skills that promotes mental well-
being and that leads to a healthy and productive
life. Health is defined as a “state of complete
physical, mental and social well being and not
merely the absence of disease or infirmity.” (World
Health Organization)
Life skills develop competencies and actual
behaviors. They result in personal actions, actions
directed to others and actions to change the
surrounding environment in a healthy, safe way.
There are many definitions of life skills. The
World Health Organization (WHO, 1993) defines
life skills as “the abilities for adaptive and positive
behavior that enables individuals to deal
effectively with the demands and challenges of
everyday life.” WHO (1994) has also identified a
core set of life skills for the promotion and well
being of children and adolescents.
Core Life Skills
Problem-solving
Decision-making (including goal setting)
Critical thinking
Creative thinking (including value clarification)
Communication skills
Interpersonal skills (including assertiveness)
Self-awareness
Empathy
Coping with stress
Coping with emotions
Life skills are often categorized different ways.
Whichever way life skills are categorized, they all
address similar issues. Some of the classifications
include:
- Communication, relationship and decision-
making skills; - Thinking, social and negotiation skills; and
- Decision-making, interpersonal
communication, values, emotions, saying
no, and our future.
These are referred to as generic life skills; they
help people deal effectively with the demands and
challenges of everyday life.
Life skills are also applied to specific risk
situations to prevent health damaging behavior.
The selection and emphasis on particular skills will
depend on the specific risk behavior. For example,
in a HIV prevention program, decision-making is
emphasized; in a care and support program with
orphans, coping with emotions and stress is
important. Emphasis does not mean choosing one
life skill over another, as all life skills are important
and interrelated.
Life skills are sometimes confused with skills such as
finding a job, going to a police station or learning
first aid. While these skills are important, they are
not what are meant by life skills.