Life Skills & Leadership: Unit 2, Session 2: Positive Communication | Page 35 of 127I Statement:
When you asked that person to stop kicking the dog,I felt proud to be your friend.I would like you to keep showing kindness to animals. OK?- Suppose a friend agreed to meet you one evening but never showed up and you were left alone.
The problem: Not meeting you Your feelings: Lonely, sadI Statement:
When you didn’t show up the other nightI felt lonely and sad because I really wanted to see you.I would like you to call when there is a change of plans. OK?- Suppose a friend of yours gave some money to a poor person on the street.
The problem: Seeing someone in need Your feelings: Shame, prideI Statement:
When you gave some money to that poor person on the street,I felt happy and surprised that you could be so generous.I would like you to continue teaching me how to help others in our community. OK?- Suppose you saw your friend out with another group of friends and she (or he) didn’t even say hello to you.
The problem: Being ignored Your feelings: ResentmentI Statement:
When you walked past me without saying hello the other dayI felt resentful because I thought you cared more about your other friends than me.I would like you to smile and say “hello” when we are in public. OK?