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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.Women have a demand, too. It’s for self-confident, self-disciplined men with a sense of
humor. If you can understand that we also have a supply for them, and that this is what you’ll
need to cultivate to become desirable on the market, you’ll never want for female affection.
However, if there is a part of you that has a very difficult time getting over the
acceptance that women ultimately can and do say “No” to men, you may wish to seek some
counseling of some kind. The techniques and strategies covered here are for men with very little
(if any) emotional baggage about women.
WARNING: When it comes to the use of the strategies given here, you should never,
ever reveal to a woman that you are using techniques or strategies on her at any point. You do
not discuss this with her because no matter how positive the effects will be of using them, her
romantic illusion is fragile. She needs to think that everything you did was without a plan, that it
was entirely spontaneous. She’ll want to believe this came about because the stars were in
alignment, your two hearts beat as one, and you two were meant to be. Happily ever after.
Whatever.
Just remember that she will not understand a rational approach on your part to keeping
your heart from getting stomped in the dirt. Rational approaches appear to be controlling and
manipulative to many people. From personal experience, I know that they often react
defensively when confronted with a man who knows what’s going on in the Dating Dynamic.
Women have always had the upper edge in this game, and they don’t take kindly to having this
control taken away. The knowledge in The Dating Black Book is your insurance, and I’m your
smiling agent.
HOW IS THIS MATERIAL ORGANIZED?...........................................................................................................
I’ll cover theories in detail, starting with getting your game together through self-
improvement right at the top of the list. From there we’ll cover the relationship continuum,
female psychology (yes, they can be understood), dysfunction and traps to watch out for, sexual
practices, and some actual plans you can use to make your goals real. I’ll add some wisdom
from the great thinkers and strategists along the way, as well as highlighting the important
principles for you with lists and visual examples. I’ll spell out the goals you’re aiming for, and I’ll
even give you the word-for-word phrasings you can use. I’ll give you examples of male-female
interactions to make these concepts work.
You hear it all the time, that dating is a numbers game, the same way sales is. It’s true, if
you could meet enough women, even the most inept, unattractive social misfit would get laid
more often than a porn star. But we know that going through those kinds of numbers is
exhausting and nerve-wracking. You could go out and introduce yourself to a hundred women
today, and get a bunch of numbers, but you’d blow yourself right out of the water from the sheer
effort. Too much pain. Saying that it’s a numbers game is true, but it’s also a bit of a cop-out.
So what this program will do is show you how to maximize your opportunities, so you
can work smart and not work quite as hard. You want maximum return on your investments, and
I want to show you the best way to handle your portfolio of ladies.