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Unauthorized duplication or distribution is strictly prohibited. Visit http://www.datingdynamics.com for more information.any advances you make, you may decide you’re better off moving on and finding someone a bit
more approachable. Before you do, you should try to break into her defenses with one final
dignified ploy:
“Jackie, I’ve been nothing but nice to you for the last two weeks, going out with you and
you’re not very open. Before I decide to call this quits, I wanted to tell you that I see your tough
act on the outside, and I know that’s a façade. I can see through your smoke screen. Deep
inside, you want to reach out and be appreciated, but you’re afraid to trust. I’d hate for you to
miss out on the wonderful opportunities in life, but we might have to stop seeing each other if we
can’t get past this.”
Call women on their behavior with direct language, and you will be amazed at how
powerful the results are, especially if you are able to describe their emotional reaction in a way
they have not been able to. Fussy, bitchy women will probably start a fight, in which case you
can walk away, but I think you’ll find that many will call you back after they’ve cooled their jets
and realize they’ve heard the Truth.