When you detach yourself from the possibility that you may be able to sleep with a girl,
you free yourself from your Fear of Loss because you automatically disqualify her.
You leave the possibility to have sex with the woman you desire there, but your goal
changes so that this possibility is not the desired outcome of the interaction, and you
therefore are not concerned about losing it.
We will get into strategies to do this in the next section.
So the two things you need to overcome your Fear of Approaching are this:
Competence Æ Detachment from Outcome
Now that we know what we need to overcome our Fear of the Approach, we’ll look at
what we need to do to implement them in real life.
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