The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

Grocery stores are a big untapped resource as well. Right after work usually lets out,
around the 4-6 pm timeframe, is always a good time to go, because women will stop by
to pick up some food before going home. Weekends are also good times to go, especially
Sunday mornings.


Parties
My all-time favorite place to meet women is at parties. Parties are good because there’s
usually a good social-circle contact involved. After all, unless you crash a party, you’re
going to know SOMEONE there, right? That gives you an “in” with pretty much
anybody at the party.


Let’s face the facts – most women meet their boyfriends through mutual friends. Friends
invite you to parties. So when you’re at parties, the girls you meet will be friendly
because you usually know the same people, and that breaks down a number of their
protective shields right off the bat.


Plus, when a woman is surrounded by familiar people, she’s more apt to cut loose and
have a good time, which means she’s more open to meeting people. I always have a
good time at parties because not only do I get to have a good time with my friends, but I
get to meet all types of women who are looking to have fun!


The best parties are the ones that occur on holidays. New Years parties are legendary for
their sexual escapades. Halloween parties are also excellent, because that’s a night where
people get to become different characters and that tends to make them lose their
inhibitions (and if a woman’s dressing in a sexy Halloween costume, you know she’s
looking to hook up!). If you want to get REALLY sneaky, throw your own Valentine’s
Day Party (or Anti-Valentine’s Day Party) and invite all your friends and have them
invite their friends. Invariably, women who are looking for romance around that type of
year will show up.


Drinking & Party Places
Bars and Clubs are always a good stand-by option for places to meet women, but you’re
going to have the hardest time getting girls in these two venues than you will in any other
venue. There are a couple reasons for this.


First, women usually go into bars and clubs with friends. Now, if you read my chapter on
Group Theory closely, you shouldn’t have a problem with this. However, it does make
things harder because girls will go out with boyfriends, husbands, current lovers, etc., or
their girlfriends will be very protective of them and will block your efforts at every turn.


Secondly, women’s defenses are usually up when they go to these places, because they’re
usually meat markets. Women will get hit on hundreds of times a night in Bars and
Clubs, which means you have to work to differentiate yourself from the common loser
who talks to her.


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