The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

Learning Places
Schools, colleges, universities and other educational establishments are GOLDMINES of
women. This is largely because they are full of young, single women making their first
foray attempts at mate selection.


Community colleges are especially good, because for some reason the women at
community colleges are just easier than women at expensive colleges. Hanging out on
campus, in the library, student union, cafeteria, etc. can wield great results. If you’re
young enough, you can pretend to be a student. If you’re older, you can say that you
used to go to this school and you were just re-visiting the campus. Of course, you could
also always sign up for classes (such as extension classes or evening classes) and meet
women that way.


Schools are great to go to during the daytime because that’s when the students are there.
At night, it’s time to move to other venues, unless it’s a university that has events like
concerts or theater going on.


Places like this are particularly conducive to meeting women because the shared lifestyle
and concerns of students and the informal atmosphere make it easy to initiate
conversation with each other. You have a great deal in common simply by being students
at the same school and don’t need to struggle to find topics of mutual interest to talk
about.


The Workplace
We spend most of our lives at work, so to eliminate the workplace as a venue to meet
women is irrational. But in this day and age, you have to be very careful about pursuing
women at work due to legal concerns, such as sexual harassment.


Not only that, but you must also consider the ramifications of starting an office romance
that ends badly, and the working environment you’ll have to endure thereafter. I
normally don’t recommend meeting women at work, but then again, why limit yourself?
Just be smart about it. Try not to pursue women you are in a superior position to (as in,
you’re her boss), and try to avoid women you work with directly on a day-to-day basis.


At work, meeting women is usually best done in certain areas. The coffee machine or
break room are always good places to meet women. Sometimes, the water cooler can be
the best place to chat up the occasional girl. If your company has a cafeteria, that can be
a great place to not only meet women, but have mini-“office lunch dates.” Invite that girl
who works on a different floor to meet you for lunch.


Occasionally, you can even get help with the “office match maker,” typically an older,
married woman who wants to set up her friends in the office with nice men. If you
befriend this lady (and even flirt with her a little), chances are good she’ll work to help
you out by giving you valuable info about women you like.


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