THE ART OF DATING
Many people have the wrong idea about dating.
They think that dating entails getting together, going out for the night, and then possibly
making out or having sex.
In a sense, they define dating as a “courtship ritual.”
But I see dating as something different than an action you do with someone. To me,
dating isn’t defined on where you take a person or what you do. To me, it’s much
simpler than that.
Dating – boiled to its core – is all about establishing and strengthening connections
between a man and a woman.
Connections are the building blocks of attraction. Without some type of connection to
another human being, attraction can not exist.
Sometimes these connections can be physical, which is why we praise good looking
women. We feel an instant connection to their beauty.
Sometimes these connections can be mental. We can find that we think similar to certain
people or enjoy the same things.
But regardless of all that, connections are primarily emotional in nature. The more
connections you have, the more positive emotions you experience around that person.
Connections make you feel safe, secure, happy, comfortable, aroused, and attracted.
But it’s not just enough for one person to have a connection to the other. For connections
to truly work, they must be established between both people.
That is where Dating comes in.
Dating is just an opportunity to establish new connections, and strengthen the
connections you already have with a woman. Everything else is negotiable. It doesn’t
matter where you take her on a date, or what you do on that date, or even how much
money is spent on the date – as long as connections are established and strengthened.
It took me a long time to figure this out, and some guys NEVER figure it out. But it’s
true. Once I stopped trying to make dates extravagant, and just relaxed and focused on
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