It’s hard to visualize something you don’t have and have never experienced. When you
have an outcome you can not visualize, it can be hard to achieve that outcome because it
doesn’t “feel real.”
And if it doesn’t feel real, it doesn’t feel as though it is in your grasp.
That is why you break your outcome up into a process. Processes are a series of mini-
goals and actions which lead to your greater outcome.
When it comes to dating, I’ve broken the whole process down into three easy steps...
Meet Æ Date Æ SeduceNo matter what your outcome is, this process will ensure you can achieve your goal, and
you will always know when to make the transition from one phase to the next.
Phase 1: Meet
This is the first part of your process, and the whole goal here is to meet the girl you desire.
You do this by finding a girl you like, thinking of an opener, approaching her, and
engaging her in conversation.
Can you visualize what it’s like to walk up to a girl, open her, and get her talking to you
and responding positively?
That’s a much easier outcome to grasp than the over-all one isn’t it? But it’s a step
towards achieving your over-all outcome, and that’s important.
Phase 2: Date
Dating is the second part of the process, and the goal here is to build strong and powerful
connections with the girl you like, so as to have her feel trust and comfort around you.
You do this creating connections between you and her, sharing commonalities, and
experiencing life together.
To me, dating doesn’t even entail going out and doing things. This phase can encompass
anything you do past the meeting that continues to build connections. Talking on the
phone, texting, email, going out together, going to special events – anything that brings
the woman you desire closer to you in a way in which she becomes more and more
comfortable is what I consider to be “dating.”
Can you visualize taking a woman you like out on a date? Or calling her up and having a
great conversation? Or having a great email or IM exchange?
It’s important to be able to actually SEE yourself and the girl experiencing these things,
as it will help you to stay focused on your outcome.
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