The Art of Approaching

(Rick Simeone) #1

THE TWO TYPES OF FLIRTING


In my experience, flirting falls into two different types of categories. They are:



  • Flirting For Fun

  • Flirting With Intent


Let’s break these types of flirting down...



  1. Flirting For Fun


This is probably the most common type of flirting, and you’ll see men who are naturally
good with women do this almost constantly. Some people call this an “energy” or and
“aura,” but it’s really just an attitude where you flirt with pretty much everyone.


See, no matter what type of flirting you do, it’s always FUN! Exchanging playful
sideways glances with women, and laughing and joking around with them can do
wonders in making you feel energetic. It can really brighten your day and raise your self-
esteem. Not only that, but this type of attitude really does attract other people to you, so
your social circle grows when you flirt for fun. This type of flirting also projects a great
deal of confidence on your part, like you’re unafraid of what society would say.


Fun flirting is pretty much a harmless endeavor, because you flirt with everyone – even
people you aren’t attracted to! You just do it because you enjoy it.


Women are incredibly perceptive when it comes to subtle sexual cues, but when you’re
flirting for fun, subtlety isn’t really necessary. Pretty much anyone will pick up on the
vibe you’re giving off and respond to it in their own way. A guy who likes to flirt for fun
will often have a lot of female friends and will usually have girls around them, because
women enjoy the attention a great deal, and as I said before – flirting is fun for everyone
involved!



  1. Flirting With Intent


If flirting for fun is setting off a bomb in a crowded room, flirting with intent is a sniper
rifle. Because flirting is essentially the beginning of the human mating ritual, when you
do find someone you are attracted to, you will want to flirt with them directly.


Flirting with intent can be like a lot like a tennis match. There are two players, and you
both constantly lob the ball into the other’s court and see if the ball is hit back to you.


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