- Share your life experiences – This relates to tip number five. You want to
capture your target’s imagination by sharing experiences you’ve been through.
When you weave your own tales about yourself, you help shape other people’s
opinions of you. I cover this topic more in “The Art of Storytelling” section. - Speak with confidence – This is a HUGE deal when flirting. The last thing you
want to do is communicate that you’re scared or unsure. So know what you’re
talking about and be certain and secure in your knowledge. Don’t be afraid to set
the record straight or get into an argument if you know you’re right. Women
respond to male aggression and confidence quite well, as long as you don’t go
overboard with it. - Whisper – Nothing can be more flirtatious and seductive than the act of
whispering. When you lean in towards a woman and lower your voice, it creates
an aura of intimacy that is hard to resist. The closer you can get to her ear, the
more intimate it becomes, and the connection between the two of you becomes
stronger because of it. - Create and use nicknames – This is a neat little trick I picked up from a friend.
When you name something, you symbolically express ownership of it. The act of
giving the woman your talking to a name is quite powerful. Not only does it
establish your dominance in the interaction, it also creates an image the woman
you’re talking to is forced to live up to. For instance, the one I like to use is “If
you were a stripper, what would your stripper name be?” and when she responds,
say “Hmmm. Actually, you look more like a Martini to me. From now on,
you’re name is Martini!” and then continue to call her that. Make a playful joke
of it. Soon, she’ll adopt the notion of sexuality that’s attached to the name you
gave her. Very powerful. - Leave her wanting more – You don’t want to exhaust your flirting arsenal right
away, so it’s always a good idea to alternate between flirting and non-flirting
signals, and keep this going until the end of your interaction. Constantly flirting
comes off as too strong, and can be too hard to keep up in the sense of how much
energy you put into the interaction, so alternating is a way to keep the ball rolling
without burning out too soon. It also allows you to extend the flirting so that
when it comes time to part, she’s still interested in seeing more of you. Too often,
men will allow the energy of the interaction to drop and by the time it’s over, the
woman has gotten her fill of you. So always end on a high note and leave her
wanting more of you.
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