There was Darla, the six foot two model who I had coincidently actually met before
through a completely different set of friends.
There was Megan, the sweet, blonde “girl next door” type who was a Mormon. She had
just moved out from Utah to pursue acting. I had a great talk with her about religion and
got her phone number.
There was Ginny, a sultry brunette who acted in a music video Elizabeth was in. I ended
up getting her number and dating her for a while before I learned she was part of some
weird cult. (I tell ya, only in LA)
And then there was Kelly, the pretty but insecure actress I ended up seeing off and on
over the course of three months. She was a real sweetheart, but she was so insecure it
was hard to be around her for extended periods of time because she’d focus on so much
negativity.
But all told, that was four great girls I got to meet that night through my friend Elizabeth.
Most of those girls I’m still friendly with, and have met other girls through them.
This is the power of being social.
A long time ago, I made it a point to never turn down an invitation to do something fun.
That decision has lead me to making great friends and having great experiences.
Understand: Life does not happen in a vacuum. Humans are social creatures and are
therefore meant to interact with other humans. If we cut ourselves off from others, we
can get depressed, lonely, and live in a general state of unhappiness.
The trick to avoiding that pitfall is to get an active and healthy social life. It’s easy to
stay at home all the time and never talk to anyone, busying yourself with work or
watching TV to pass the time.
We’ve all been there before.
However, this does not mean you should not have a good network of friends to hang out
with. Friends are what make life worth living. They help to teach you, share with you,
and experience life with you. Only through our interactions with others are we able to
truly experience the world around us.
Remember: The more social you are, the more women you’ll meet, and the more fun
you’ll have.
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