And I know for a fact that I’m not alone in doing this. Due to my time teaching dating
and relationship skills, I have recognized this phenomenon in other men as well.
Reality is much different than dreams. In reality, beautiful women do not fall from the
sky and aggressively pursue you because they like a challenge and magically recognize
your inner qualities.
This is stuff movies have lead us to believe happens. But it doesn’t.
I have yet to meet one person who has experienced this. Even good looking guys don’t
have this happen to them.
In real life, women wait around to be approached. They don’t put themselves “out there”
by pursuing men the way we’d like them to. They aren’t mind readers who know what
you’re thinking and feeling, and they can’t magically spot the inner qualities of a man.
Anyone who doesn’t recognize this is a fool, a dreamer, or a little bit of both.
I’ve often had conversations with guys about this. Topics like “true love” and “love at
first sight” often come up as arguments AGAINST the reality of relationships and dating.
These are things fairy tales are made of. Not reality.
The one objection I get a lot is the belief that there is a person out there “fated” to meet
you and fall in love with you. After all, isn’t there “someone for everyone?”
The hard answer to that is: NO.
This is probably the worst lie there is.
It’s true that there IS, in fact, someone for everyone... but fate, destiny, true love, and
love at first sight has NOTHING to do with it.
The people who believe this are what I call “hopeless romantics.” And as it turns out,
they are also the men who are the most bitter and angry with women – because time after
time, they are disappointed.
When we refuse to deal with reality, we set ourselves up for heartbreak, frustration,
despair, and any number of other negative emotions. We are given an excuse to shrug off
responsibility and blame the universe for our problems. We become victims.
This is where I was that night years ago.
That was the night my fantasy was shattered. That was the night where I took a good,
hard look at how I perceived dating and relationships with women, and recognized I was
believing in lies and fantasies to get me what I wanted.
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