- The&second&type&is&a&compliment&of&appearance&such&as,&“That&sweater&brings&out&the&
blue&in&your&eyes.”&The&third&type&is&a&compliment&related'to'behavior.&It&might&be&
something&like,&“That&was&very&sweet&to&let&that&car&go&in&front&of&you&today.”And&the&
fourth&type&of&compliment'is'one'of'character,&such&as&“Someone&asked&me&what&the&
definition&of&integrity&was,&and&my&mind&immediately&went&to&you.”&&
&
Look&for&ways&to&give&your&husband&a&compliment&every&day.&Pay&attention&to&your&husband&and&
take¬e&of&his&appearance,&behavior,&and&character&qualities.&Then&sprinkle&a&few&
compliments&his&way.&Your&husband&may&be&confused&or&skeptical&with&this&sudden&showering&
of&praise.&He&may&say,&“What’s&up&with&all&the&compliments&all&of&a&sudden?”&
&
If&that&is&his&reaction,&just&say,&“I’d&forgotten&what&a&wonderful&man&I’m&married&to,&and&I’m&
realizing&it&more&and&more&every&day!”&
&
Romance'Challenge'
' - Make&a&list&of&ten&to&fifteen&things&you&admire&about&your&husband&and&send&it&to&him&in&
an&eSmail,&post&it&on&his&Facebook&wall,&or&tape&it&on&his&bathroom&mirror.&
& - Make&him&a&little&card&the&size&of&a&credit&card&that&says:&Lifetime&Member&of&the&AAA&
Club&of&Marriage.&I&admire,&adore,&and&appreciate&you.&
& - If&you&have&children,&compliment&or&praise&your&husband&in&front&of&them&at&dinner.&Go&
around&the&table&and&ask&each&child&to&tell&one&thing&they&love&about&daddy.&
& - If&your&husband&travels,&call&the&hotel&ahead&of&time&and&leave&a&romantic&message&on&
his&room&phone&or&at&the&front&desk.&
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