The Teen Survival Guide to Dating & Relating: Real-World Advice on Guys, Girls, Growing Up, and Getting Along

(Martin Jones) #1

  • INTRODUCTION

  • Chapter 1: Me, Myself, and I

  • WHAT’S UP WITH PEER PRESSURE?

    • like me anymore. .8 Why should people care if the girl I like is only a sophomore?. Kids bug me because I’m different. .7 If I stand up for someone, other people might not



  • RIDING EMOTIONAL WAVES

  • Anger

    • I get mad about everything.



  • Embarrassment

    • I always make a fool of myself.



  • Insecurity

    • I don’t think I’m good enough.



  • Loneliness

    • On weekends, it’s like I live on a deserted island.



  • Sadness

    • My grandma died, and I feel lost without her.



  • HOW YOU FEEL ABOUT YOUR LOOKS

    • I want to look like the models in the fashion magazines. .26 My breasts are too big!.

    • Would a popular girl ever like a chunky guy?.



  • MAKING DECISIONS

    • Isn’t it MY decision?. .32 How far should I go for a friend?.



  • Relationships All About? Chapter 2: What Are Boyfriend/Girlfriend

  • LOOKING FOR LOVE

    • friend!. .38 I’ve looked everywhere for a boyfriend. .40 I always like guys I can’t get. Is my true love someone exactly like me?. .37 I wish I had a girlfriend!. .38 I need a boy-



  • OPEN COMMUNICATION

    • with my stepdad. .181 My parents are splitting up, and my mom wants to move!. don’t know what they’re talking about. .179 My dad is a racist. .180 I can’t get along

    • My parents are pressuring me to get all A’s.



  • KEEPING AGREEMENTS

    • boarding school!. .188 My parents won’t let me meet my online boyfriend. My dad is great about everything except dating. .187 My parents want to send me to

      • My parents don’t have a clue. .190 I lost my phone privileges because of bad grades.





  • TRUST AND PRIVACY

    • a letter about my boyfriend. .196 Why don’t my parents trust me?. My parents read my email!. .194 My parents don’t trust my friends. .195 My mom read



  • Chapter 7: Sibling Relationships

  • COMPETITION

  • Firstborns

  • Youngest

  • Middle children

    • My sister always gets the guys I like. .203 I’m just not as great as my brother.

    • my sister!. My parents put all the pressure on me because I’m the “good” kid. .205 I’m so unlike



  • COMMUNICATION PROBLEMS

    • My twin sister is pushing me away. .208 My brother has no respect for my privacy.

    • My older brother acts like he’s my dad!. .210 My sister has a drug problem.

      • My brother refuses to talk to me. .212 My sister is leaving for college.





  • Chapter 8: Dealing with Authority Figures

  • COPING WITH THE ANXIETY

    • to everything. My girlfriend’s father embarrasses me. .218 I’m so afraid of teachers that I say yes



  • HANDLING PROBLEMS

    • I shot off my mouth to a teacher. .223 My boss insults me and everyone else.

    • our team. I don’t like the way that my advisor treats me. .225 My coach picks on a kid on



  • Chapter 9: Conflict Resolution Tool Kit

  • RESOLVING CONFLICTS PEACEFULLY

  • A conflict-resolution plan

  • FAMILY MEETINGS

  • A family-meeting plan

  • P.S.

  • INDEX

  • ABOUT THE AUTHOR

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