are toxic as well as psychological teratogens, and both categories oppose the
word of al'Mussawwir only to cause deviations from the natural norm of
sexuality which is based on the central quality of loving trust in Allah and in
His vice-gerents (parents).
Touch, Sexual Response, and Intimacy
The various degrees of trust and its direct correlation with the sense of touch
- and thus also an individual’s sexual response – are subconsciously 'fixed' and
physiologically “hard-wired” by the age of three. Some professionals believe
they are fixed earlier by the age of 18 months. This means that in addition to
sexualized brain anomalies as established earlier, sexually oriented response
deviations are further conditioned by the environment, by parents and/or by
caregivers of the infant/baby during this time.
For example: one case history relates a three year old male who was
innocently masturbating when discovered by a disapproving mother who
surprised the child at the moment of orgasm [non-ejaculatory]. She was
wearing high heels which he saw from his vantage point (hiding under a bed).
As a result, he experienced fear and the shame of disapproval along with
orgasmic pleasure at the same time. The imprint of forbidden pleasure (fear
of discovery during sensual bliss) became firmly associated with his mother's
high-heeled shoes, her feet and her disapproval. This association became a
life-long fetish (high heels and feet) without which this otherwise normal
heterosexual male could not experience orgasm. Another case history is that
of a girl who was tossed on her father's knee for a spanking while he is
wearing pajamas which opened during the blows exposing his penis to her
view for the very first time. As a result, the little girl associates pain with sex
as an adult and gladly submits to a man who spanks her bottom (masochism)
or abuses her before entering her. The current wealth of scientific data
in which the Pakistani government has been meeting religious leaders to build awareness
of the spread of HIV/Aids. Pakistan is stepping up its anti-Aids campaign, and the idea is
to utilize the clerics' unique reach into communities to increase HIV/Aids awareness and
to preach prevention.” - By Paul Anderson BBC News, Islamabad - See also: Amnesty
International about violence against British women (Muslims)
http://www.amnesty.org.uk/svaw/vaw/global.shtml):