The Seven Basic Needs
of A Husband
One Your husband needs a wife who
respects him as a man. All men
aspire to leadership; it is their
nature.
Men naturally establish their manliness via
leadership. Taking charge of the family
enterprise is synonymous with manhood! The
initial steps are those of courtship followed by
marital consummation, which is the loving
dominion of your charms and entry to your sacred temple. I say dominion
quite purposely, because in marriage the domain of your beauty and favor
belong solely to him. Your submission in this primal realm of human
intercourse confirms his manhood and establishes his natural authority.
Therefore, when a wife defies his authority through disobedience, disrespect
or refusal, she rejects his manliness and indirectly but still deliberately,
invites the attention of another woman’s eager compliance by default –
providing of course, that he possesses desirable attributes!
Once you understand and accept these realities you enter the realm of
womanly wisdom. His regency may be the modest domain of a taxi or the
exalted power of a prince; it matters not, for both are kingdoms and the home
of each man is the castle of his lordship and you are his first officer of the
watch, duly appointed by Allah then delegated by nikah! Begin to regard him
as a prince, and you will engender his benign monarchy as an officer and a
gentleman.
Learn how to appeal to him with wisdom, and do not seek advice from
other men! This is a mortal mistake that will slay the life and love of your
marriage! The wisdom of a wife’s petition is this: approach him as you would a king. If
the matter is important, address him formally as ‘husband’. Accept advice