Eye SignalsUsing the right gaze gives credibility.What men describe as the 'come-on' look that women use
relates to a sideways glance, dilated pupils and Intimate
Gazing. If a woman wants to play hard to get, she needs to
avoid using an Intimate Gaze and use Social Gazing instead.
But most men miss a lot of it anyway. To use a Power Gaze
during courting would leave a man or woman labelled as cold
or unfriendly. When you use an Intimate Gaze on a potential
partner, however, you give the game away. Women are expert at
sending and receiving this gaze but, unfortunately, most men
are not. When men use the Intimate Gaze it's usually blatantly
obvious to women and men are generally unaware of having
been given an Intimate Gaze by a woman, much to the frus-
tration of the woman who gave it.