The Definitive Book of Body Language

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Seating Arrangements — Where to Sit, and Why

tion, Mark Knapp from the University of Vermont noted that,
although there is a general formula for interpretation of
seating positions, the environment may have an effect on the
position chosen. Research conducted with middle-class people
showed that seating positions in public bars can vary from the
seating positions taken in a high-class restaurant. The direc-
tion the seats are facing and the distance between tables can
also have a distorting influence on seating behaviour. For
example, intimate couples prefer to sit side by side wherever
possible, but in a crowded restaurant where the tables are close
together this is not possible and the couples are forced to sit
opposite each other in what is normally a defensive position.
Keeping that in mind, we'll now present the main seating
choices we have in a variety of circumstances at work and
socially.


Take the Table Test


Let's assume that you are going to sit at a rectangular table
with person A and that you are person B. Which seating posi-
tion would you choose in the following circumstances:



  • You will interview someone for a job in a small, friendly
    company.

  • You are going to help someone complete a crossword
    puzzle.

  • You are going to play chess against someone.

  • You are in a public library and don't want any involvement.
    Look at the next illustration and make your choices.


Basic seating positions
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