Mindfulness Meditation (For Everyday Life)

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So, when you notice yourself building up an image of
invincibility, or strength, or special knowledge, or
wisdom based on your meditative experiences,
thinking perhaps that you're getting somewhere in
your practice, and you start talking a lot about
meditation in a way that is self-promotional and
inflationary, it's a good idea to bring mindfulness to
that mind-set and to ask yourself whether you are
running from your vulnerability, or perhaps from grief
you may be carrying, or from fear of some sort. If you
are truly strong, there is little need to emphasize it to
yourself or to others. Best to take another tack
entirely and direct your attention where you fear most
to look. You can do this by allowing yourself to feel,
even to cry, to not have to have opinions about
everything, to not appear invincible or unfeeling to
others, but instead to be in touch with and
appropriately open about your feelings. What looks
like weakness is actually where your strength lies.
And what looks like strength is often weakness, an
attempt to cover up fear; this is an act or a facade,
however convincing it might appear to others or even
to yourself.


TRY: Recognizing the ways in which you meet
obstacles with harshness. Experiment with being soft

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