Major Chart Patterns
"The Loved One" (red color): This goes with the one
above—the Lover. The Loved One is the one who is
loved, the one who receives all the attention and care—
the object of care.
"The Independent" (blue color): This type is pretty much
independent and self-sufficient. This is not to say they
don't enjoy relationships, only that they are not as
dependent on them. They can more or less entertain
themselves—at least from time to time.
"Multi-Relationship" (maroon color): This type can play
either Lover or Loved One, but they are not independent.
They are dependent, but dependent on relationships in
general, as a way to learn about themselves.
These four main types make the world of relationships
go round. There are many ways of looking at
relationships, and using astrology to do so is just one of
those ways. This is not an attempt to claim that this is
the only way or even the best way to examine how we
relate to one another; it is, however, an alternate view—
a 2nd opinion, so to speak, and only you can decide
whether it has value for you.
Astrology is NOT something to believe in or not believe
in. It is something that is either helpful and useful or not.
Check it out for yourself, to see whether you find this
method of looking at relationships useful. Here are the
four main relationship types in more detail.