dreams are things you aim to get one day, and goals are what
you are doing together. Dreams are acquisitions that either of
you could want, and goals are shared aims that you need each
other for, because without the other the goal is pretty mean-
ingless.
This Rule is about reviewing. To review, you have to talk to
your partner about where it is you both think you’re going and
what you’re doing. It doesn’t have to be heavy. This can be a
light review just to touch base and check that you are both on
the same track. It doesn’t have to be too detailed, just simple
questions to confirm a general similar direction, rather than
trying to map out an A-to-Z of your future life together.
YOU HAVE TO KEEP
CHECKING
THAT YOU ARE BOTH
USING THE SAME MAP.