Pole Position
For most of us, sex with our significant other is
a fantastic way to end date night and nothing
can really beat concluding a romantic evening
with some traditional lovemaking. But what if
it’s all becoming ‘too routine,’ too predictable,
what then? Well there are many ways to skin the
proverbial cat, no pun intended and while we’reaware that no amount of flexibility or weird-but-
arousing positions and kinkiness can ever replace
the intensity of intimacy there are a few things
you and your lover can do to heat things up. So, if
you’re looking for a few new ideas or shall we say
‘positions,’ then we’ve got 4 styles that are sure to
spice things up in the bedroom!The G-Whiz
If you want to become a G-spot-
finding sexual marksman then
the G-Whiz is just what you’re
looking for to improve your
arsenal of lovemaking skills.
You can think of this position
as Missionary, but much more
extreme, allowing you to go
even further than before all
while stimulating your partner’s
G-spot. This move is best done
on a soft floor or firm bed. To
begin, ask her to lie on her back
with her legs raised all the way
back until her knees touch her
chest. Then, kneel between her
thighs and rest her calves on your
shoulders. Once you’re both
comfortable and ready you can
do as nature intended. Want to
turn it up a notch? Then prepare
to go even deeper by placing
your feet firmly on the ground,
meaning you’re now in a squat
position. This is a sure-fire way to
get her to orgasm.The Flatiron
This position offers something
most others don’t, reach,
oh, and something nice to
look at while you’re going
at it. While it may appear
raunchy, the Flatiron can be
immensely intimate to both
partners if done correctly.
Ask your significant other
to lie facedown and arch her
booty upwards (toward you).
It’s much better done with a
small pillow placed below her
stomach to push her butt out.
Traditionally it’s done with
your legs closed and hers open
but it’s much more intense
if you reverse the roles by
opening your legs with hers
closed and beneath you. Use
your arms to keep your weight
off her and try shallow thrusts
followed by deeper finishes to
really get her off.Stand and Deliver
This position is something your
lover is sure to take pleasure in
as she gets to lie back and enjoy
watching you do your thing. It’s
also great for locations where a
bed is not readily available, say, at
the office? The Stand and Deliver
is pretty simple, you stand at the
edge of a table, desk or countertop
and while she lies on her back
with her legs raised and apart
you basically take her right then
and there. It’s best to find a table
that lines up with your pelvis,
for obvious reasons. There are
some variations to this move, she
can bend her knees or, if you’re
feeling manly, you can lift her up
off the table. Here, you’re both
free to move your hands and
touch one another. Try grabbing
her ankles to take charge or play
with her breasts to add some kink
and don’t be too rough during
penetration as this position allows
you to go deeper than normal.Couch Surfer
You better put the TV on
mute for this one, actually,
you might just wanna it off- no distractions. Picture a
traditional rear-entry position
like Doggystyle but this time
your partner is arched over your
sofa’s armrest. It sounds like
the perfect ‘Netflix and Chill”
scenario doesn’t it? The Couch
Surfer is particularly interesting
as if offers some levels of
variety. You can leverage her
by raising her booty or arching
her back, increasing the angle of
penetration. You can also cross
her legs either at the knees or
ankles to tighten her vaginal
muscles. You can also raise your
leg, placing it on the armrest
which gives you more motion
control and makes it possible to
go even deeper. The best part of
this position is the view, and no,
we don’t mean the game on TV.
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