J
essicaLange’syounggranddaugh-
ters,IlseandAdah,recentlyasked
hertospeaktotheirgirls’group
aboutherlife.At first,shewasn’t
surewhattosay.Thensherealized
themessageshewantedtodeliver
toher grandkids’generation.“Theonething
I’ve alwaysfeltis thatI’veneverallowedmy-
selfto be restricted,”Jessicasays.“I’vedone
everythingI wantedto do,andno onecould
tell me therewassomethingI couldn’tdo.”
That’sbeen thecasefor Jessica,who
turned70 thisyear,eversinceshegrewup as
the rebelliousdaughterof a travelingsales-
manandateacherinMinnesota.“We
movedarounda lot—I wentto eight
differentschools,”sherecalls.“I
was alwaysthenewgirlintown,
the outsiderlookingin.”
Yetsheusedthatoutsid-
er’sperspectivetoobser ve
a widevarietyof peopleand
learnhowtoinhabitthem.
ShewonOscarsas alove-
lornsoap-operaactressin
Tootsie(1982)andabipo-
larmilitaryspouseinBlue
Sky (1994) and threeEm-
Learned
THEOSCA
WINNING
ACTRESS
OPENS UP
ABOUT
MOTHER-
HOOD,RAGEAND
AGINGGRACEFULLY
What I’ve
at
LIFE LESSONS
“Acceptance,
toleranceand
forgivenessare
life-altering
lessons.”
—Jessica
JESSICA LANGE
Jessica feared
Tootsie (with
Dustin Hoffman)
was too silly, but
says, “I’m thrilled
that I did it.”
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