happening. Then she started making
out with both of us. I could see the
Uber driver watching us in the rear-
view mirror. He must have been think-
ing, ‘What the hell is going on here?’ As
soon as we were in the door it was on. It
was respectful, hot sex.
“Since we posted our profile in
December 2015, we’ve had 420
matches. It’s usually women older than
us – maybe they have the confidence to
fulfil their fantasies. The youngest was
a 25-year-old nymphomaniac, who
took us to a secret sex party. She was
more experienced than both of us.
“An awesome threesome just flows.
We always want to satisfy our ladies, so
initially it’s all about getting them off.
After 13 threesomes, I’d say we’ve got itpretty down. Women go wild for two
guys sucking their nipples. Another
favourite is the woman laying back on
me. I hold her legs open wide, while
Shawn goes down on her. But there’s no
set formula. It just unfolds. Honestly,
there isn’t anything more pleasurable
than watching a woman give into the
pleasure of four hands, two mouths
and two rock hard cocks.
“When it comes to the intercourse,
it’s pretty easy. One of us could be
inside the woman, while she’s sucking.
Or they’re kissing, or whatever. Neither
of us is the slightest bit gay, so we
don’t touch each other. It’s the visual
stimulation and the fact it’s so naughty.
Then there is the hot part of getting to
watch, while you recover from coming.“Some of the experiences have
been better than others. There are so
many factors at play – whether we click
as people, what the chemistry is like
and the big one, confidence. We’ve
never rejected a woman due to her
body shape. Obviously, some women
have better bodies, but that doesn’t
make them better in bed. It’s more
about the enthusiasm. If the woman is
obviously enjoying herself, then the sex
is better. An average session can last
anything from an hour, to one woman
who stayed the whole night – then we
all had sex again the next morning.
“There may have been instances of
the women preferring one of us. There
have been times when I was more into
a woman, or Shawn was, but it has
never been obvious enough for us be
aware of it at the time. Shawn and I are
never in competition, although he
comes more than I do. However, my
cock is bigger. So, it’s all good!
“We’ve seen four of the chicks
more than once. It’s not just sex; it’s
been fun hanging out with women that
we’d never have ordinarily met. We
love the fact that we’re able to give
them an experience they’ve always
fantasised about and probably will
remember for the rest of their lives.”THE BONDAGE
MASTER
Oscar*, 37, lives in Sydney and works in the motor
industry. He goes by the profile name “Shibari”“M
y fascination with the Japanese
erotic art form of shibari began when
I was in a long-term relationship
and we needed to spice things up.
Bondage had always intrigued me, so I looked online
and watched a series of rope training videos. Then I took
some shibari workshops at Kink Studio in Sydney.
“While my ex-partner enjoyed it, I was the driving
force. I’m known as a rigger, which means I practise the
art of tying bondage. When I’m binding up a rope bunny
[the term given to the person who is restrained], I think
of the rope as an extension of my arms, wrapping her
and then holding her in place.
“After my relationship broke up, I joined Tinder in
September 2016 and I’ve had 20 curious women
respond. After matching you need to find out whether
you have the potential to have a connection. We discuss
the possibility of what we could explore sexually.
“Then the conversation moves into a detailed sce-
nario of what would happen if we were to play together.SEX LIVES