Why do I get
wetter with some
guys more than
with others?
You can’t blame being a
strong river with one dude
and a gentle stream with
the next on just one thing.
That’s because female arousal
- which is often measured
by vaginal lubrication – is
both a psychological and
physiological process, says
gynaecologist Dr Elizabeth
Poynor. ‘In new relationships,
people tend to be much more
excited by their partner,
which heightens arousal,’
says Dr Poynor (which may
explain why you’re sometimes
wetter with a guy you only
recently matched with). But
there’s also a comfort factor.
Most women need to feel
relaxed with a partner in
order to get turned on and
cue the waterworks. Some
medications, like the Pill, can
affect things too. If you’re
feeling dry, an organic lube
can help adjust your babbling
lady-brook at any time.
SEX
T OY OF
THE
MONTH
There’s a party in
his pants tonight,
so RSVP ‘Yas!’
What’s the best sex toy...
for a total first-timer?
Even noobs fall fast for
the Lelo Nea 2 ($132.99,
Wildsecrets.com.au). It has
eight vibration settings,
is totally waterproof, and
isn’t peen-shaped, which
means he won’t be freaked
out when you introduce him
to your new little friend.
Score! #
love & lust
COSMOPOLITAN June 2017 149