ask
him
any-
thing
Q. MY GUY
TEXTS HIS FEMALE
WORK COLLEAGUE
A LOT BUT SWEARS
THEY ARE JUST
FRIENDS. GIVE IT
TO ME STRAIGHT
- AM I BEING TAKEN
FOR A RIDE?
A. OSHER: ‘Work
relationships are
often very close and
some can require
communication
around the clock, so
I wouldn’t worry. If
she is a true friend
of his, ask to spend
time hanging out,
the three of you. Let
him know you’d like
to be friends with
his friends.’
MATT Y: ‘This is really
tricky because I’m a
believer in following
your instinct, but
you really need to
trust your partner.
I’d be open and let
him know how you’re
feeling. I know that
a lot of people don’t
have the luxury of
keeping work just
between 9-5, but
ask if he can try to
keep work-related
contact to the office
and to emails.’
L O V E
ADVICE FROM
MATTY J AND
OSHER
Mat ty J and Osher
146 COSMOPOLITAN SEPTEMBER 2017