Is it weird
to watch porn
during solo play?
Um, squirting:
How does it
work, exactly?Everyone’s talking about it- but no one’s quite sure what
it is or how to do it. Allow
us to elaborate: tissue on the
upper wall of your vagina,
called the urethral sponge,
fills with f luids (aka female
ejaculate) that is released via
small holes as you orgasm,
says clinical sexologist Dawn
Nope. In a study published by
the Journal of Sexual Medicine,
51 per cent of women said
they’d recently watched porn.
It’s only problematic if you
can’t get off without it or if
your masturbation sessions
affect your relationships. In
that case, it may help to talk
to a pro about cutting back.SEX
T OY OF
THE
MONTH
What’s the best toy to
treat myself with?
Your fave lingerie brand
now does toys – and they
are super luxe. The dual-
motored Venus vibe from
Honey Birdette ($200,
honeybirdette.com) is
made of silky-soft silicone,
looks and sounds subtle,
and could easily be your
new best friend. #Michael. ‘Think of the duct
as a hose. For some women,
its opening is bigger, so there
is a steady gushing effect,’
says Michael. ‘For others,
that opening is tiny, so when
the f luids build up, there’s
a squirting effect.’ In other
words, it all depends on how
your body is built. Plenty of
women can’t squirt at all. It
has nothing to do with how
awesome you are at sex (and
nothing to do with his bed-
WORDS BY JULIE VADNAL. ADDITIONAL REPORTING BY KELSEY GARLICK. STILL-LIFE PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANDREW FINLAYSON/BAUER. GETTY IMAGESroom skills, either!).
IT’S ALL FUN AND
GAMES UNTIL
SOMEONE COPS
IT IN THE EYE.COSMOPOLITAN SEPTEMBER 2017 149
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