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• Faith: If you share the same faith, you will share the same
life purpose.
• Having private time together on a regular basis.
• Don’t offer too much advice unless it’s requested.
• Never stop laughingLastly, here are Barbara and Allan Pease’s “Surefire Romance
Tips for Men” as listed in their excellent, eye-opening and “must
read” book Why Men Don’t Listen and Women Can’t Read Maps.
- Set the environment. The right lighting—dimly lit rooms make
pupils dilate. A woman’s superior hearing means that the right
music is important. 2. Feed her. Taking a woman to dinner is a sig-
nificant “intimate event” for her—even when she’s not hungry. 3.
Light a fire. Collecting wood and lighting a fire harken back sub-
consciously to cave man days when a woman wanted her man to
be a hunter and a protector. 4. Bring flowers. That is to say, bring
her fresh flowers. 5. Go dancing. Dancing has been described as “a
vertical act of horizontal desire”—it allows close male/female
body contact as a lead-up to courtship. 6. Buy chocolates and cham-
pagne. Champagne contains a chemical not found in other alco-
holic beverages that increases testosterone levels. Chocolate con-
tains phenyl ethyl amine, which stimulates the love center in a
woman’s brain.