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DEATHS

PATRICIA

MATHILDAPROUDFOOT

March 13, 1928

October 9, 2019

The Honourable PatriciaMathilda

Proudfoot, beloved by her

extended familyandaneven

broader circle of friendsand

colleagues, died peacefullyat

home on October 9, 2 0 19,age 91.

A singularwoman, she combined

a judicialcareer marked by

firstswithafull private life. Pat

valued relationships. She built

and maintained these across

generationsand continents, in

allaspectsandateverystage of

her life. Shewill be remembered

with love, with laughterand

with deep respect for her

strengthof character, courage

and lifeaccomplishments.

Born March 13, 1928, theyoungest

inafamilyof ten children, Pat set

her sights on the practice of law at

anearlyage. Working three part-

time jobs to support her studies,

she graduated from the University

of British ColumbiawithaB.A. in

1949 and her LL.B. in 1952. After

articling, shewascalled to the bar

in September 1953. Thereafter, she

set upaprivate practice,which

lasted 18years until October 1971,

when shewasappointed to the BC

Provincial Court. Shewas the first

woman judge to sit in that criminal

court. Whenappointed to the BC

CountyCourt in 1974, shewas the

firstwomantobeappointed to

that court. In 1977, shewas the

firstwomanappointed to the BC

Supreme Court.

More appointments followed.

In December 1982, she was

appointedadeputyjudge of

the Supreme Court of the Yukon

Territory and in June 1991,asa

deputyjudge of the Supreme

Court of the Northwest Territories.

Shewasalsoappointedamember

of the Pension AppealBoard of

the CanadaPension Plan in 1994,

aposition she held until July 2010.

In 1989, Patwas elevated to the

Court of Appeal for BCand Yukon

Territory, making her the first

woman to sit in everycourt in the

Province of British Columbia. She

retired in July 2010 ,having served

foralmost 40years.

Patwasactive in other spheres.

Shewasamember of the board

of the Canadian Council of

Christiansand Jews,amember

of the committee on Sexual

Offences Against Childrenand

Youth,an honorarydirectorof

Big Sisters of British Columbia,

a commissioner appointed

under the BC Public InquiryAct

to the Royal Commission on

Incarceration of Female Offenders

andamember of the Vancouver

Foundation’sFamilyand Youth

advisorycommittee. She was

alsoalong-time supporter of the

Franciscan Sisters of Atonement

in Vancouver’s Downtown

Eastsideand of her parish church,

St Augustine’s,withaspecial

interest in its school.

Esteemed for her many

contributions to the legal

professionand the communityat

large, Pat receivedanumber of

awardsandaccreditations. These

includedan HonoraryDoctor of

Lawfrom Simon Fraser University

in 1975and from the University

of British Columbiain 1994. In

200 2, she received the Vancouver

YWCA “Woman of Distinction”

awardaswellasathird Honorary

Doctor of Lawfrom the Okanagan

UniversityCollege. Shewasmade

amember of the Order of British

Columbiain June 2 00 7.

Predeceased by her husband,

Arthur Proudfoot; seven sisters

and one brother; Pat is survived

byher sister, Helen Schaeffer

of Summerland, BC; and by

manynephewsand nieces, their

children,and grandchildren. She

isalso remembered byahost of

friends fromaround theworld.

MemorialMasswill be celebrated

at1 0 :30a.m. on Saturday,

November 2, 2 019 at St.

Augustine’s Church, 2 0 28 West

7th Avenue, Vancouver, BC.

Following the mass, therewill

beareception from 12: 00 - 2:3 0

p.m.atShaughnessyGolfand

CountryClub, 43 00 SW Marine

Drive, Vancouver.

No flowers byrequest. Please

considera donation in Pat’s

honour toacharityofyour choice.

DEATHS

ANNEMARIERUTHERFORD

(born Naess)

Born March 26, 1932, Ise, Norway.

Deceased October 15, 2 0 19, Kingston,

Canada,age 87.

Anne Marie Rutherford passedaway

peacefullyon October 15, 2 0 19. She

livedalongandadmirable life. She

was predeceased byher loving

husband, Ken Rutherford,and

the sunshine of her life, daughter,

Kristin Rutherford. She is survived

byher children, Astrid (Nils Inge

Lundheim), Philip (Carol), Ingrid,

Dag (Bettina)and Eirik (Michelle

Leake). Her eleven grandchildren

and seven greatgrandchildrenwill

always look to herasasource of

inspiration.

Anne Marie Naesswas the eldest

of twodaughters born onafarm

inasmallvillage in southeastern

Norway. Growing upafarm-girl in

Norwayduring Nazi occupation,

she understood the importance

of hardworkand self-reliance.

After the war, she attended

Landbrukshoyskole,anagricultural

college in Oslo,and subsequently

purchased the familyfarm from

her father in 195 0. Determined to

keep the farm in the family, she

continued to manage it evenwhile

livingabroadand raisingayoung

family. To her greatjoy, her eldest

child, Astrid, took over the farm

decades laterand it continues

to be run byher grandson, Ole

Christian, to this day.

Itwasat college that she met her

future husband, NewZealander

Ken Rutherford. The newlyweds

moved to NewZealand,which

was the firstof several countries to

which she relocatedwithayoung

familythateventuallygrewto

include sixchildren -all thewhile

teaching herself English,aswell

as the cultures of those far-flung

places, that included Trinidad,

Australiaand eventuallyCanada.

The couple finally settled in

Kingston in 1964 where Ken

taught Geographyat Queen’s

University. Once established, he

and Anne Marie built thefamily

house on Cartwright Point (“The

Point”.) Her enterprising spirit

led toasuccessful career in Real

Estate,where shewas one of

the most respectedandwell-

known brokers in thearea. Her

enthusiasm helped raise five

university-educated children, each

following theirown unique career

path. Anne Marie never lost her

connection toworking the land,

from buyingand operatingafarm

on Howe Island to her beautiful

gardenat The Point. She did this

allwith boundless tolerance,a

bright smileand heartylaugh.

Theworldwasabetter placewith

Anne Marie Rutherford in it - she

will be sorelymissed.

The familyappreciatesall the love

and support Eirikand Michelle

providedas “the locals”, to our

Mother. Wewouldalso like to

thank her long time caregiver,

Angie Malone,and the staff of

Rideaucrest for their lovingand

personalcare.

Friends are invited toattend

a remembrance on Saturday,

October 26, from 2: 00 p.m. to

5: 00 p.m.at the UniversityClub,

168 Stuart St. (Queen’s University

campus),with briefwords from

the familyat3: 00 p.m.

In lieu of flowers, please consider

making a donation to the

Alzheimer Societyof Canada.

TEDSCHWARTZ

On Friday, October 18, 2019 at

Amica Residence. Beloved

husband of Paulette. Loving

fatherandfather-in-lawofMarilyn

and Sammy Sliwin, Elaine and

Mitch Grossman, and Carolyn

Schwartz and Ian Shufflebotham.

Dear brother and brother-in-law

of Mike Schwartz, the late Ernie

Schwartz, and Anci and Ignutz

Farkus. Devoted grandfather of

DavidandErin,DanielandArielle,

Noah and Heidi, Lee and Aliza,

Stacy, and Jesse, great-

grandfather of Carter, Jack, and

Bree. Ted will be fondly

remembered by Eleanor Goldlist.

Many thanks to his wonderful

caregiversMaya,Aileen,andMae.

At Benjamin’s Park Memorial

Chapel, 2401 Steeles Avenue

West(3lightswestofDufferin)for

service on Sunday, October 20,

2019 at 1:00 p.m. Interment

Sunnyside Cemetery Association

at Mt. Sinai Memorial Park on

Wilson Avenue. Shiva 210

Dunvegan Road, Toronto.

Memorial donations may be

made to the United Jewish

Appeal,416-631-5685.

DEATHS

REV.WALTERSELLARS

(Paddy)

PaddySellarsquietlydeparted

this life on September 27,

2019justshyofhishundredth

birthday. He leaves behind a

treasury of life’s experiences

for his daughters, Sandra

Kuelz (Bernd) and Nancy

Marcotte (Brian); his

grandchildren, Ron (Nancy),

Evan (Stephanie), Leslie,

Chenoa (Jon), Kyle (Kelly);

and his 10 great-

grandchildren.

Paddy was borninSt.John’s,

Newfoundland, on December

22, 1919. He fished from the

Battery with his grandfather,

endured the Depression,

marvelledatradiotechnology

and left to join the RCAF at

the outbreak of World War II.

While he was a staffOfficerat

No. 3 Wireless School in

Winnipeg, he met Roberta

Brown (1919-2008). They

were married in 1946. Paddy

studied theology at United

College in Winnipeg and

Columbia University in New

York. Throughout hisministry

to United Church

congregations in Manitoba,

Ontario and Labrador, Paddy

shared hispassionforlifeand

hisspiritofadventure.

When he wasn’t involved in

rebuilding a church that had

burned or building a church

to hold a growing

congregation or updating a

gracious older church or

adding plumbing or new

pews, he was enjoying

summers on Lake of the

Woods and building docks or

enjoying summers on the

farmwherehekeptcattleand

bees and of course built a

house,agarageandabarn.

Friends are invited to call at

the Central Chapel of Hulse

Playfair & McGarry, 315

McLeod Street (at O’Connor)

on Saturday, October 26,

2019 from 10 a.m. until time

ofthememorialserviceinthe

chapel at 11 a.m. The service

will be followed by a

reception in the McGarry

FamilyReceptionCentre.

In lieu of flowers, donations

to the Canadian Cancer

Societywillbewelcome.

Condolences/Tributes/

Donations

Hulse,Playfair&McGarry

http://www.hpmcgarry.ca

613-233-1143

DEATHS

DARYL LEONARD

MERLESHARP

January 2, 1936

October 8, 2019

Jungiananalyst, publisher,author

was born in Regina,Sask. to

parents Emeryand Marion Sharp.

He had one older brotherand

the family moved frequently,

spending time in each province.

He earned bachelor’s degrees in

Mathematics & Physics,and in

Journalism,atCarleton University

in Ottawa,aswellasamaster’s

degree in Literature & Philosophy

from the Universityof Sussex

in Brighton, England. While in

England heworkedasateacher,

andasawriter/editor for London

publishers. He convenedwith

both British&ex-patCanadian

friends in the local gathering spot

forwriters,artistsandactors. He

also metand married Barbara

Latham, hiswife of 13years,with

whom he had three children.

Theylived in London, Devon,

Heyshott and Dijon, France,

then moved back to Canada

to Burlington, Ontario in 1969.

He then founded the seminal

Playwrights Co-op of Canada.

Daryl entered trainingat the C.G.

Jung InstituteZürich in 1974,

and upon graduating in 1978

he returned to Canadaagain

to beginan analytic practice

in Toronto. In 198 0 ,hebegan

his major labourof love: Inner

CityBooks -apublishing house

solelydedicated to thework

of Jungianpsychology.Daryl

himselfwrote more than3 0 titles.

Healso co-founded the Ontario

Association of JungianAnalysts.

Daryl met VictoriaCowanwith

whom he hadafourth childand

whoalso became senior editor

at ICB. Theyspent timeat their

Manitoulincottagewhere Daryl

drewinspiration for manyscenes

and characters in his books. His

publishing business flourished

while Daryl continuedwith his

successful practiceasaJungian

analyst. Hewas frequentlyasked

to guest lecture for Jungian

associations in Toronto, the U.S.

and in Europe.

Darylwasanadventurous person

withaquiet introspective side.

He loved music,artand books;

enjoyed the opera,jazzclubs

and snooker. He chose the road

less travelledand ledalifewell

lived. Hewill be deeplymissed

byhis childrenDave(Sandra),

Ben (Deb), Tanya(Noel), Jessy

(Robbie); grandchildren Julian,

Devon, Dylanand Emily; brother

Duane (Myrna); nieces Heidiand

Dana;co-parent Victoria(Brian);

business partner Scott (Joy);

loving companion Liz;many

dear friendsand the Jungian

communityallaround theworld.

A celebrationof Daryl’s lifewill

take place in the comingweeks.

Professor Brilligand Arnoldwill

live on...

DEATHS

SANDY SIL VER

With heavyheartsweannounce

the passing of Sandy(Sandra)

Silver on October 14, 2 0 19.

Daughter of the late Graceand

David Silver, beloved partner of

LindaBlaine. Adored bybrother

and sister-in-lawMurray and Fern

Silver, sisterand brother-in-law

Lindaand Paul Anderson. Loved

Aunt of Jef, Danielle (Jason), Debra

and Sari (Greg)and Great Aunt of

Max, Addie, Mishaand Izzy.

Sandywasasingular, inspirational

character who impacted an

extraordinarynumber of lives - her

friendshipwas gold. She liveda

remarkable lifeand brought tenacity

and resilience toapioneering role in

Canadian Women’s Sports. She left

her markacrossCanadanot onlyas

anational levelathlete,coach,and

mentor butasaprogressiveadvocate

who impacted sport in Canada,

especiallyBC for over 40years. Her

honours include Volleyball Canada

and BC Volleyball Halls of Fame

among many awards for leadership

andadvocacyforwomen inall sports.

Her legacywill continue including

through theSandySilver Volleyball

Endowment Fund.

Shewasawonderful partner to

Lindaand theyenjoyedalmost

25 joyfulyears together. In her

spare time she travelled theworld,

wasanactive supporter of Out in

School, made dogs happy,and had

aside careerasanactorand extra.

Sheaccomplishedall this fueled by

ice creamandwithan infectious

laugh thatifyou listen hard enough

you can probablyhear.

In lieu of flowers, donations

arewelcome: https://support.

ubc.ca/projects/sandy-silver-

volleyball-award/

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