IlllzI\Uv\I)\Ii\llR|.|h
The
pathof/1li?a.rur¢*
neverlA'ad.s'to
glory.’
The
prodigious
achievements
of
llrt'rule,s'werethe
result
ofhigh
mitten-
lure,
and
though
there’
is
little,
eitherin
fable
or
/tis‘It17v,
to.\'lt(1wthat
hehad
anyrivals,
stillit
is
t‘¢’c4)r(lrd
[hata
knight
errant,
in
company
witha
fellow
txdvcnzurcr,sought
his
_/ortima
inaromzmtir
country.
Hehadnot
Irawlr*r1_far
what
his"
mmpiinitm
oliserwrrla
past,
onwhichwas
writtenthe
following
lrl,S'(‘,t’l[)l‘i(’Irt.
“Iiravs
advlmiurcr.
ifyou
have
azleiim(0ilixmverthat
whichhasnever
been
.\c't‘I1
by
anyknigltl
crrram,
you
have
only
I!)
pass’
thisI0rrent_and
thantakein
your
arrns
an
elephant
ofrtmw
and
carry
itinone
breath
to
the
.\untmi(
of
this
mountain,
whose
nohh:head.wi'rru‘
blemlcclwith
the
.»
y.’
"But.
"
mid/ht‘
knight:
L‘()m[)(U1l()n,
“thewater
may
be
deep
aswellas
rapid,
and
though.
riotwithsramling,
we
should
[m.\‘.\'it,why
shottltlwebemaim-
hrzrcrlwiththe
alepli/irit?
What:1
?‘I(ll(‘L<l/Gusimdi=r1ah-
ittgf"
/lml
/ihilosopl2i-
rally
andwithnice
calculation,
he
observedthat
the
£’l('p’lllIllmight
he
carried
foursteps:
but
forcmtveying
itto(hr
mpofthc
mozmtairiin
one
breath,
thatwas
notinlhzr
powerafa
mortal,
mtlersitshould
225 LAW2 3
BOl.l)NF.SSANDHESITATION:ABrief
PsychologicalComparison
Boldnessandhesitationelicit
very
different
psychologicalresponses
intheir
targets:
Hesitalion
puts
obstacles
in
yourpath,
boldnesseliminatesthem.
Once
you
understand
this,
you
willfinditessentialtoovercome
your
nat-
ural
timidity
and
practice
theartof
audacity.
The
following
are
among
the
most
pronouncedpsychological
efiectsofboldnessand
tirnidity.
TheBoldertheLietheBetter. Weallhave
weaknesses,
andourefforts
are
never
perfect.
But
entering
action
with
boldness
has
the
magical
effect
of
hiding
ourdeficiencies.Conartistsknowthatthebolderthe
lie,
the
more
convincing
itbecomes.Thesheer
audacity
ofthe
story
makesitmore
credible,
distracting
attentionfromitsinconsistenciesWhen
putting
to-
gether
aconor
entering
any
kind of
negotiation,go
furtherthan
you
planned.
Askfor
the
moonand
you
willbe
surprised
howoften
youget
it.
LionsCircletheHesitant
Prey.People
haveasixthsensefortheweak-
nessesofothers.
If,
inafirst
encounter,
you
demonstrate
your
willingness
to
compromise,
back
down,
and
retreat,
youbring
outthelionevenin
peo-
ple
who
arenot
necessarilybloodthirsty.Everythingdepends
on
percep-
tion,
andonce
you
areseenasthekindof
person
who
quicklygoes
onthe
defensive,
whois
willing
to
negotiate
andbe
amenable,
you
willbe
pushed
aroundwithout
mercy.
BoldnessStrikes
Fear;
FearCreates
Authority.
The
boldmovemakes
you
seem
larger
andmore
powerful
than
you
are.Ifitcomes
suddenly,
withthestealthandswiftnessofa
snake,
it
inspires
thatmuchmorefear.
By
intimidating
withabold
move,
you
establisha
precedent:
in
every
subse-
quent
encounter,
people
willbeonthe
defensive,
interrorof
your
next
strike.
GoingHalfway
withHalfaHeart
Digs
the
Deeper
Grave. If
you
enteranactionwithlessthantotal
confidence,
you
set
up
obstaclesin
your
own
path.
Whena
problem
arises
you
will
grow
confused,
seeingoptions
wheretherearenoneand
inadvertentlycreating
more
problems
still.Re-
treating
fromthe
hunter,
thetimidharescurriesmore
easily
intohissnares.
HesitationCreates
Gaps,
BoldnessObliteratesThem. When
you
take
timeto
think,
to
hem
and
haw,
you
createa
gap
thatallows
others
timeto
thinkaswell.Your
timidity
infects
people
withawkward
energy,
elicitsem-
barrassment.Doubt
springsup
onallsides.
Boldness
destroys
such
gaps.
Theswiftnessofthemoveandthe
energy
oftheactionleaveothersno
space
todoubtand
worry.
In
seduction,
hesi-
tationisfatal—itmakes
your
victimconscious
of
your
intentions.
Thebold
movecrownsseductionwith
triumph:
Itleavesnotimeforreflection.
Audacity
Separates
YoufromtheHerd. Boldness
gives
youpresence
andmakes
you
seem
larger
thanlife.Thetimidfadeintothe
wallpaper,
the