IlllzI\Uv\I)\Ii\llR|.|h
The
pathof/1li?a.rur¢*neverlA'ad.s'to
glory.’The
prodigiousachievements
ofllrt'rule,s'weretheresult
ofhighmitten-lure,
and
though
there’is
little,
eitherin
fableor
/tis‘It17v,
to.\'lt(1wthathehad
anyrivals,
stillit
is
t‘¢’c4)r(lrd
[hataknight
errant,
incompany
witha
fellowtxdvcnzurcr,soughthis_/ortima
inaromzmtircountry.HehadnotIrawlr*r1_far
what
his"mmpiinitmoliserwrrlapast,onwhichwaswrittenthe
followinglrl,S'(‘,t’l[)l‘i(’Irt.
“Iiravsadvlmiurcr.
ifyouhaveazleiim(0ilixmverthat
whichhasnever
been.\c't‘I1
by
anyknigltlcrrram,
youhave
onlyI!)
pass’
thisI0rrent_andthantakein
yourarrnsan
elephant
ofrtmwand
carry
itinonebreath
to
the
.\untmi(
ofthis
mountain,
whosenohh:head.wi'rru‘blemlcclwith
the
.»
y.’"But."
mid/ht‘
knight:L‘()m[)(U1l()n,
“thewatermay
be
deep
aswellasrapid,and
though.riotwithsramling,weshould
[m.\‘.\'it,whyshottltlwebemaim-hrzrcrlwiththealepli/irit?
What:1?‘I(ll(‘L<l/Gusimdi=r1ah-
ittgf"/lml
/ihilosopl2i-rally
andwithnicecalculation,
heobservedthat
the£’l('p’lllIllmighthecarried
foursteps:
butforcmtveyingitto(hrmpofthcmozmtairiinone
breath,
thatwasnotinlhzr
powerafamortal,
mtlersitshould225 LAW2 3
BOl.l)NF.SSANDHESITATION:ABriefPsychologicalComparison
Boldnessandhesitationelicit
verydifferentpsychologicalresponses
intheirtargets:Hesitalion
putsobstacles
inyourpath,
boldnesseliminatesthem.Once
youunderstandthis,
youwillfinditessentialtoovercome
yournat-ural
timidityandpractice
theartofaudacity.
Thefollowing
are
amongthemostpronouncedpsychological
efiectsofboldnessandtirnidity.
TheBoldertheLietheBetter. Weallhaveweaknesses,
andoureffortsare
neverperfect.
But
enteringaction
with
boldness
has
themagical
effectofhiding
ourdeficiencies.Conartistsknowthatthebolderthe
lie,
themore
convincingitbecomes.Thesheeraudacity
ofthe
storymakesitmorecredible,distracting
attentionfromitsinconsistenciesWhen
puttingto-gether
aconor
entering
anykind of
negotiation,gofurtherthan
youplanned.
Askfor
the
moonand
youwillbesurprised
howoften
yougetit.LionsCircletheHesitantPrey.People
haveasixthsensefortheweak-nessesofothers.
If,inafirst
encounter,
youdemonstrate
yourwillingness
tocompromise,
back
down,and
retreat,
youbringoutthelionevenin
peo-ple
who
arenotnecessarilybloodthirsty.Everythingdepends
on
percep-tion,
andonce
youareseenasthekindof
personwhoquicklygoes
onthedefensive,
whois
willingtonegotiate
andbe
amenable,
youwillbepushed
aroundwithout
mercy.BoldnessStrikes
Fear;
FearCreates
Authority.The
boldmovemakesyouseemlarger
andmorepowerful
than
youare.Ifitcomessuddenly,
withthestealthandswiftnessofasnake,
itinspires
thatmuchmorefear.By
intimidatingwithabold
move,
youestablishaprecedent:
in
everysubse-quent
encounter,people
willbeonthedefensive,
interrorof
yournextstrike.GoingHalfwaywithHalfaHeart
Digsthe
DeeperGrave. If
youenteranactionwithlessthantotal
confidence,
youset
upobstaclesin
yourownpath.
Whenaproblem
arises
youwill
growconfused,
seeingoptions
wheretherearenoneandinadvertentlycreating
moreproblems
still.Re-treatingfromthe
hunter,
thetimidharescurriesmoreeasily
intohissnares.HesitationCreates
Gaps,BoldnessObliteratesThem. When
youtaketimeto
think,to
hem
andhaw,
youcreatea
gapthatallows
others
timetothinkaswell.Your
timidityinfectspeople
withawkward
energy,elicitsem-barrassment.Doubtspringsup
onallsides.Boldnessdestroys
such
gaps.Theswiftnessofthemoveandthe
energyoftheactionleaveothersno
spacetodoubtand
worry.In
seduction,hesi-tationisfatal—itmakes
yourvictimconscious
of
yourintentions.
Theboldmovecrownsseductionwithtriumph:
Itleavesnotimeforreflection.AudacitySeparates
YoufromtheHerd. Boldness
gives
youpresenceandmakes
youseemlarger
thanlife.Thetimidfadeintothewallpaper,
the