This
supplies
thecleverand
cunning
withenormous
opportunities
for
deception.
For
people
whoare
choosing
betweenalternativesfindithard
to
believe
they
are
beingmanipulated
or
deceived;
they
cannotseethat
you
are
allowing
them
a
small
amount
offreewillin
exchange
foramuch
more
powerful
imposition
of
your
ownwill.
Setting
up
anarrow
range
of
choices,then,
should
always
bea
part
of
yourdeceptions.
Thereisa
say-
ing:
If
you
can
get
thebirdtowalkintothe
cage
on
its
own,
itwill
sing
that
muchmore
prettily.
The
following
are
among
themostcommonformsof
“controlling
the
options”:
ColortheChoices.Thiswasafavored
technique
of
HenryKissinger.
As
President
RichardNixon’s
secretary
of
state,
Kissinger
consideredhimself
betterinformed
than
his
boss,
and
believedthatin
most
situationshecould
makethebestdecisiononhisown.Butifhetriedtodetermine
policy,
he
wouldoffendor
perhapsenrage
a
notoriously
insecureman.So
Kissinger
would
propose
threeorfourchoicesofactionforeach
situation,
and
would
present
theminsucha
way
thattheonehe
preferredalways
seemed
the
bestsolution
compared
totheothers.Timeafler
time,
Nixonfellforthe
bait,
never
suspecting
thathewas
moving
where
Kissingerpushed
him.
Thisisanexcellentdevicetouseontheinsecuremaster.
Forcethe
Resistor.
One
ofthemain
problems
faced
by
Dr.MiltonH.Er-
ickson,
a
pioneer
of
hypnosistherapy
inthe
1950s,
was
the
relapse.
His
pa»
tients
might
seemtobe
recoveringrapidly,
buttheir
apparentsusceptibility
tothe
therapy
maskeda
deep
resistance:
They
wouldsoon
relapse
intoold
habits,
blamethe
doctor,
and
stop
coming
toseehim.Toavoid
this,
Ericlo
son
beganordering
some
patients
tohavea
relapse,
tomake
themselvesfeel
asbadaswhen
they
firstcamein—-——to
go
backto
square
one.Facedwith
this
option,
the
patients
would
usually
“choose”toavoidthe
relapse-
which,
of
course,
waswhatErickson
really
wanted.
Thisisa
goodtechnique
touseonchildrenandotherwillful
people
who
enjoydoing
the
opposite
ofwhat
you
askthemto:Pushthemto
“choose”what
you
want
them
to
do
byappearing
to
advocatethe
opposite.
Alterthe
Playing
Field.Inthe
1860s,john
D.Rockefellersetouttocre-
ateanoil
monopoly.
Ifhetriedto
buyup
thesmalleroil
companiesthey
would
figure
outwhathewas
doing
and
fight
back.
Instead,
he
began
se-
cretlybuyingup
the
railwaycompanies
that
transported
the
oil.
Whenhe
then
attempted
totakeovera
particular
company,
andmetwith
resistance,
heremindedthemoftheir
dependence
ontherails.
Refusing
them
ship-
ping,
or
simply
raising
their
fees,
couldruintheirbusiness.Rockefellera.l~
teredthe
playing
fieldsothatthe
onlyoptions
thesmalloil
producers
had
weretheoneshe
gave
them.
In
thistactic
youropponents
knowtheirhandis
being
forced,
butit
doesn’tmatter.The
technique
iseffective
against
thosewhoresistatall
costs.
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