have
been
outgrown.
If
your
victimsor
rivalswentwithout
something
im-
portant,
suchas
parentalsupport,
when
they
were
children,
supply
it,
orits
facsimile.If
they
revealasecret
taste,
ahidden
indulgence,indulge
it.Inei-
thercase
they
willbeunabletoresist
you.
Lookfor Contrasts.Anoverttraitoftenconcealsits
opposite.People
who
thump
theirchests
are
often
big
cowards;
a
prudish
exterior
may
hide
alascivious
soul;
the
uptight
areoften
screaming
for
adventure;
the
shy
are
dying
forattention.
By
probingbeyondappearances,you
willoftenfind
people’s
weaknessesinthe
opposite
ofthe
qualitiesthey
revealto
you.
FindtheWeakLink.Sometimesin
your
searchforweaknesses
itisnot
whatbutwhothatmatters.In
today’s
versionsofthe
court,
there
is
often
someonebehindthesceneswhohasa
great
dealof
power,
atremendous
influenceoverthe
personsuperficially
on
top.
Thesebehind-tliescenes
powerbrokers
arethe
group’s
weaklink:Wintheirfavor
andyouindirectly
influencethe
king.Alternatively,
evenin
a
group
of
peopleacting
withthe
appearance
ofonewill—aswhena
group
underattackclosesrankstoresist
anoutsi-:ler———thereis
always
aweaklinkinthechain.Findtheone
person
whowillbendunder
pressure.
Fillthe
Void.
The
two
main
emotional
voidsto
Killare
insecurity
andum
happiness.
Theinsecurearesuckersfor
any
kindofsocial
validation;
asfor
the
chronically
unhappy,
lookfortherootsoftheir
unhappiness.
Theinse
cureandthe
unhappy
arethe
people
leastableto
disguise
theirweak-
nesses.The
ability
tofilltheiremotionalvoidsisa
great
sourceof
power,
and
an
indefinitelyprolongable
one.
FeedonUncontrollableEmotions.Theuncontrollableemotioncanbe
a
paranoid
fear-wafear
disproportionate
tothesituaIion~—-or
any
basemo-
tivesuchas
lust,
greed,vanity,
orhatred.
People
inthe
grip
oftheseemo-
tions
often
cannotcontrol
themselves,
and
you
cando
the
controlling
for
them.
OBSERVANCESOFTHE
LAW
ObservanceI
In 1615 the
thirty—yeaH3ld
bishop
of
Lugzon,
laterknownasCardinalRiche
lieu,
gave
a
speech
before
representatives
ofthethreeestatesofFrance-
clergy,nobility,
andcommoners.Richelieuhadbeenchosentoserveas
the
mouthpiece
forthe
clergy—an
immense
responsibility
for
a
man
still
young
andnot
particularly
wellknown.On
allof
the
important
issuesof
the
day,
the
speech
followedtheChurchline.ButneartheendofitRiche«
lieudid
something
thathad
nothing
todowiththeChurchand
everything
todowithhiscareer.Heturnedtothethroneofthe
fifteen-year—oldKing
Louis
XIII,
andto
the
Queen
Mother
Mariede’
Médicis,
whosatbeside
Thenwhatdid/ukdear
friend
do?He
czzutiousl
y
madehis
way
downInrim
boumn
nfrhe
ravine.
and
there,
outinthe
openspace
andthe
free
air.
seeing
thatthelion
wantedneither
flaliery
norobedience
now,
he
settoworkto
pay
the
[mtsadrim‘tohis
dead
friend,
andinll
momh
picked
hisbones
c/0.-m.
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mogul]
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a
play.
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rmzeting
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today,”
Lazar
explained[10
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Kanin],
“hmIdir1n’Imemion
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bring
it
up.”
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noI?"Iasked.
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going
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afier
next,
when
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go
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Palm
Springs."
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go
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Palm
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wee/«end.
butWarner
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going
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end.Heb
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a
preview
or
sometlxing.
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heir
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dawntill
rimHex!weekeml,so
that‘:when
I’m
going
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up.“
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wing,I
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