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ple’s
emotions,
youwillturntheirlossofcontroltoyouradvantage:
Youkeepyour
headwhilethey
arelosing
theirs.During
an
importantbattleintheWaroftheThreeKingdoms,
inthethird
century
A.D.,adviserstothecommanderTs’aoTs’aodiscovereddocu»mentsshowing
thatcertainofhisgenerals
hadconspired
withthe
enemy,andurged
himtoarrestandexecutethem.Insteadheorderedthedocu-mentsburnedandthematterforgotten.
Atthiscriticalmomentinthebat-tle,
to
get
upsetordemandjustice
wouldhavereverberatedagainst
him:An
angryactionwouldhavecalledattentiontothegenerals’disloyalty,
which
would
have
harmed
thetroops’
morale.
justicecouldwait-hewould
dealwiththegenerals
intime.Ts‘ao Ts’aokept
hisheadandmadethe
rightdecision.Compare
thistoNapoleon's
responsetoTalleyrand:
Insteadoftaking
theconspiracypersonally,
the
emperorshouldhaveplayed
the
gamelikeTs’ao
Ts’ao,carefullyweighing
the
consequencesof
anyactionhetook.Themorepowerful
responsein
theendwouldhavebeento
ignoreTal~
leyr-and,
ortobring
theministergradually
backtohissideandpunish
himlater.Angeronly
cutsoffouroptions,
andthepowerful
cannotthrivewithoutoptions.
Once
youtrainyourself
nottotakematterspersonally,
andtocontrol
youremotional
responses,youwillhaveplacedyourself
ina
posi-tionoftremendous
power:Now
youcanplay
withtheemotional
responsesofotherpeople.
Stirtheinsecureintoactionbyimpugning
theirmanhood,
andbydangling
the
prospectofan
easyvictorybefore
their
faces.Do
asHoudinididwhenchallengedby
the
less
successful
escapeartistKleppini:
Revealan
apparentweakness(Houdini
let
Kleppinistealthecombinationfora
pairofcuffs)
tohire
your
opponentintoaction.Then
youcanbeathimwithease.Withthe
arroganttoo
youcan
appearweakerthan
you
are,tauntingthemintoarashaction.Sun
Pin,
commanderofthearmiesofCh’iandloyaldisciple
ofSun-tzu,
onceledhistroopsagainst
thearmiesofWei,
whichoutnumberedhimtwotoone.“Letus
lightahundredthousandfireswhenour
armyentersWei,”suggested
Sun
Pin,
“fiftythousandonthenextday,
andonlythirty
thousandonthe
third.”
On
thethirdday
theWeigeneral
exclaimed,“Iknew
the
menofCh’iwere
cowards,
andafter
onlythreedays
morethanhalfofthemhavedeserted!”
So,leaving
behindhisslow-movingheavy
infantry,
thegeneral
decidedtoseizethemomentandmoveswiftly
ontheCh’i
campwitha
lightlyarmedforce.
Sun
Pin’s
troopsretreated,
luring
Wei’s
armyintoanarrow
pass,wherethey
ambushed
anddestroyed
them.WiththeWeigeneral
deadandhisforces
decimated,
SunPinnow
easilydefeatedtherestofhis
army.Inthefaceofahot—headedenemy,finally,
anexcellent
responseisnoresponse.FollowtheTalleyrand
tactic:Nothing
isas
infuriatingasamanwhokeeps
hiscoolwhileothers
arelosing
theirs.
If
itwillworkto
yourad-vantageto
unsettlepeople,
affectthe
aristocratic,
bored
pose,neithermocking
nortriumphant
butsimply
indifferent.Thiswill
lighttheirfuse.