Thisisthereasonforthe
supremeimportanceofmaking
andmain-taining
a
reputationthatisof
yourown
creation.That
reputationwill
protectyouin
thedangerousgame
of
appear-ances,distracting
the
probing
eyesofothersfromknowing
what
youarereally
like,and
giving
youadegree
ofcontroloverhowtheworldjudges
you—apowerfulposition
tobein.Reputation
hasa
powerlikemagic:
Withonestrokeofits
wand,
itcan
doubleyourstrength.
Itcanalsosendpeoplescurryingaway
from
you.Whethertheexactsamedeeds
appearbrilliantordreadfulcan
dependentirely
onthe
reputationofthedeer.IntheancientChinesecourtoftheWeikingdom
therewasamannamedMiTzu-hsiawhohada
reputation
for
supremecivilityandgracious-
ness.
Hebecamethemler’s
favorite.
Itwas
a
lawinWeithat
“whoever
rides
secretly
intheruler’scoachshallhavehisfeetcut
off,”
butwhenMiTzu-hsia’smotherfell
ill,
heusedthe
royal
coachtovisit
her,pretending
thattherulerhad
givenhimpermission.
Whentherulerfound
out,hesaid,
“HowdutifulisMiTzu-hsia!Forhismother’ssakeheevenforgot
thathewas
committing
acrimemaking
himliableto
lose
his
feet!”Anothertimethe
two
ofthemtookastrollinanorchard.MiTzu-hsiabeganeating
apeach
thathecouldnot
finish,
andhe
gavetherulertheotherhalftoeat.Theruler
remarked,“Youlovemesomuchthat
youwouldevenforgetyour
ownsalivatasteandletmeeattherestofthepeach!”
Later,however,envious
fellow
courtiers,spreading
wordthatMiTzu-hsiawasactually
deviousand
arrogant,succeededindamaging
his
reputa-tion;therulercametoseehisactionsinanew
light“Thisfellowoncerodein
my
coachunder
pretenseof
my
order,”hetoldthecourtiersangrily,
“andanothertimehe
gavemeahalf-eatenpeach.”
Forthesame
actionsthathadcharmedtheruler
when
he
wasthe
favorite,
MiTzu-hsianowhadtosufferthepenalties.
Thefateofhisfeetdependedsolely
onthestrength
ofhisreputation.
Inthebeginning,you
mustworktoestablisha
reputationforoneout-standingquality,
whethergenerosity
orhonesty
orcunning.
Thisquality
sets
youapartand
getsotherpeople
to
talk
about
you.Youthenmake
yourreputationknowntoasmanypeople
aspossible(subtly,
though;
takecaretobuildslowly,
andwithafirmfoundation),
andwatchasitspreads
likewildfire.A
solid
reputationincreases
your presenceandexaggerates your
strengths
withoutyourhaving
tospend
much
energy.Itcanalsocreateanauraaround
youthatwillinstillrespect,
evenfear.Inthefighting
intheNorthAfricandesertduring
WorldWar
II,theGermangeneral
ErwinRommelhada
reputationfor
cunningandfordeceptivemaneuvering
thatstruckterrorinto
everyonewhofacedhim.
Even
when
hisforceswerede-pleted,
andwhenBritishtanksoutnumberedhisby
fiveto
one,
entirecitieswouldbeevacuatedatthenewsofhisapproach.
Astheysay,
yourreputationinevitablyprecedesyou,
andifitinspires
respect,
alotof
yourworkisdonefor
youbefore
youarrive
onthe
scene,orutter
asingle
word.Yoursuccessseemsdestinedbyyourpasttriumphs.
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