Thisisthereasonforthe
supremeimportance
of
making
andmain-
taining
a
reputation
thatisof
your
own
creation.
That
reputation
will
protectyou
in
the
dangerousgame
of
appear-
ances,
distracting
the
probing
eyes
ofothersfrom
knowing
what
you
are
really
like,
and
giving
you
a
degree
ofcontroloverhowtheworld
judges
you—apowerfulposition
tobein.
Reputation
hasa
power
like
magic:
Withonestrokeofits
wand,
itcan
double
yourstrength.
Itcanalsosend
peoplescurryingaway
from
you.
Whethertheexactsamedeeds
appear
brilliantordreadfulcan
dependentirely
onthe
reputation
ofthedeer.
IntheancientChinesecourtoftheWei
kingdom
therewasaman
namedMiTzu-hsiawhohada
reputation
for
supremecivility
and
gracious-
ness.
Hebecamethemler’s
favorite.
Itwas
a
lawinWeithat
“whoever
rides
secretly
intheruler’scoachshallhavehisfeetcut
off,”
butwhenMi
Tzu-hsia’smotherfell
ill,
heusedthe
royal
coachtovisit
her,
pretending
thattherulerhad
given
him
permission.
Whentherulerfound
out,
he
said,
“HowdutifulisMiTzu-hsia!Forhismother’ssakeheeven
forgot
thathe
was
committing
acrime
making
himliableto
lose
his
feet!”
Anothertimethe
two
ofthemtookastrollinanorchard.MiTzu-hsia
beganeating
a
peach
thathecouldnot
finish,
andhe
gave
therulerthe
otherhalftoeat.Theruler
remarked,
“Youlovemesomuchthat
you
would
even
forgetyour
ownsalivatasteandletmeeattherestofthe
peach!”
Later,however,
envious
fellow
courtiers,
spreading
wordthatMiTzu-
hsiawas
actually
deviousand
arrogant,
succeededin
damaging
his
reputa-
tion;
therulercametoseehisactionsinanew
light
“Thisfellowoncerode
in
my
coachunder
pretense
of
my
order,”
hetoldthecourtiers
angrily,
“andanothertimehe
gave
meahalf-eaten
peach.”
Forthesame
actions
thathadcharmedtheruler
when
he
wasthe
favorite,
MiTzu-hsianowhad
tosufferthe
penalties.
Thefateofhisfeet
dependedsolely
onthe
strength
ofhis
reputation.
Inthe
beginning,you
mustworktoestablisha
reputation
foroneout-
standingquality,
whether
generosity
or
honesty
or
cunning.
This
quality
sets
youapart
and
gets
other
people
to
talk
about
you.
Youthenmake
your
reputation
knowntoas
manypeople
as
possible(subtly,
though;
takecare
tobuild
slowly,
andwithafirm
foundation),
andwatchasit
spreads
like
wildfire.
A
solid
reputation
increases
your presence
and
exaggerates your
strengths
without
yourhaving
to
spend
much
energy.
Itcanalsocreatean
auraaround
you
thatwillinstill
respect,
evenfear.Inthe
fighting
inthe
NorthAfricandesert
during
WorldWar
II,
theGerman
general
Erwin
Rommelhada
reputation
for
cunning
andfor
deceptivemaneuvering
that
struckterrorinto
everyone
whofacedhim.
Even
when
hisforceswerede-
pleted,
andwhenBritishtanksoutnumberedhis
by
fiveto
one,
entirecities
wouldbeevacuatedatthenewsofhis
approach.
As
theysay,
your
reputationinevitablyprecedesyou,
andifit
inspires
respect,
alotof
your
workisdonefor
you
before
you
arrive
onthe
scene,
orutter
a
single
word.
Yoursuccessseemsdestined
byyourpasttriumphs.
Muchofthesuc-
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