Sex and Love
Sexual reproduction is fundamental
to passing on our genes. Multiple
emotions evolved that accompany and
facilitate this process, which together
can create the feeling of love.
Love and attraction
The scientific study of love and sexual
behavior has identified three primary
components: attraction, attachment, and lust.
These states all occur on different timescales
and involve different regions of the brain
producing an array of chemical messengers—
neurotransmitters and hormones. Lust and
attraction are closely interlinked, and both are
transient, passing in a relatively short time.
For relationships to last, these states must
yield profound attachment, which involves
long-term changes to the brain.
Oxytocin, which is released by the hypothalamus,
has long been known as the hormone that
induces labor in mammals.
It was then found to be
crucial for mother-offspring
bonding and later to
be central to forming
long-term attachments
in sexual and social
relationships.
THE LOVE DRUG
Attraction
Surges of the chemical messengers dopamine
and noradrenaline combine with reduced levels
of serotonin to produce urgent feelings of
attraction. In an energized state—with racing
heart, sweaty palms, and little appetite—we think
constantly about our lover, craving their company.
Brain areas
The hypothalamus and pituitary gland control early
hormone-led phases of bonding. The prefrontal cortex then
mediates the emotional control involved in attachment.
Brain
produces
dopamine
Reward
pathway in
brain triggered
Feelings of
excitement
and euphoria
DOPAMINE
Brain produces
noradrenaline
Noradrenaline
levels increased Energy levels
increased,
heart races,
appetite
decreased,
insomnia
NORA
DRENALINE
Brain
produces
Serotonin less serotonin
levels
reduced
Loss of
appetite,
insomnia,
feelings of
obsession
SEROTONIN
OXYTOCIN
VASOPRESSIN
KEY
Prefrontal cortex
Hypothalmus
Pituitary gland
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